I'm 18 years old. I hate parties. When I get invited to one, I feel really awkward and uncomfortable and then I just leave and feel bad that I went. I hate talking, being, going out or hanging with more than one person. I feel really bad that I am like that. Should I feel bad?I am just not social and I hate it. Does that make me a less of a person? I can't change no matter how hard I try. And believe me, I tried....a LOT.
2007-12-31 06:42:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I am not depressedd.
2007-12-31 06:52:51 · update #1
Depressed, I meant :)
2007-12-31 06:53:17 · update #2
I'm like you, but I never considered that to be a fault in me. I enjoy the solitude and being by myself, doing things that I like. But that doesn't make me a lonely person. I never try to be anything that would make me uncomfortable with myself.
I'm not a social person, but that doesn't make me anti-social. It's not that I don't enjoy other people's company, it's just that the few people I like to hang out with are close friends and family.
2007-12-31 06:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe u are kind of person that don't talk much, when u go to party, u might be leaf out by others. Therefore, u don't want to go. Also when u are alone, u can think of alot things. U feel peaceful when u are alone.
2008-01-01 00:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by k3lly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may just be a loner but you should try and go out some more. take it from someone who was a loner for most of her life, you miss out on a lot. And that is a much bigger regret than going to a party and feeling bad that you went. So try to enjoy life more.
2007-12-31 16:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Give into Me♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may feel u do not have complete confidence. but when you go to one and get drunk youll love them.
maybe you do not know many people at them, that came be off putting also.
don't feel bad, when you become a little older, you will feel lwess self concious also.
Just have fun, you only got one life (that i am aware of)
2007-12-31 15:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR NOT WEIRD!!!!! just depressed or moody
2007-12-31 14:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's nothing wrong with being that way. It limits your interactions with others and stunts your growth, socially speaking so if you don't mind that, then it's your life.
2007-12-31 14:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by Charles WE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o noooo dont feel bad. ur just not social.. u dont like it. dnt try to change that.. jus say fck it and do you. 4get tha parties n crap. if u like being alone and having fun by urself or sumbody else n nt alotta ppl then thats FINE!! who needs alot of people?? too many people especialy females can NEVER BE A GOOD THING> they're always talkin n wt nt. everyones got SUMTHIN to say. if you dont wanna be bothered with all that crap i think thats great! just because u see other people reactions and u dont feel that reaction on urself has it ever dawnd on you that they're fake.. and not as happy as they look?? if the party scene doesnt make you happy then 4get it! do YOU and make YOU happy.. thats what its all about n e way.. even if you do feel wierd.. get rid of that feelin. n get happi.
2007-12-31 14:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry. Some people like being social, some want to be more private. You can't change who you are, jus be happy with yourself. If you like hanging around only one person, then do that. People are different, don't beat yourself up about it.
2007-12-31 14:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, no.
I am 16 years old. And some months ago I had the same problem. But recently I've found friends who I have a lot in common with, but still very different from.
I am a lot more open with my friendships now, and I LOVE being with all 7 of them.
YOU just need to make plans. Don't let others invite you, try being the hostess for once.
I hope it works dear :)
2007-12-31 14:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kelso 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That doesn't make you less of a person at all. It just makes you a person who would rather have one-on-one relations with people instead of dealing with large groups. I'm not one for parties either, I usually show up and say hi to my friends and then leave. The only thing you need to be careful about is if it turns into you not wanting to be around any people or leave your house. Talk to a doctor if it grows into a phobia.
2007-12-31 14:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by jetta_yellow107 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋