2007-12-31 06:34:09 · 19 answers · asked by cocolia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is he abusive? if he is then call the women's shelter.
2007-12-31 06:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN, RUN, RUN. Like Julia Roberts in dozing with the enemy. circulate initiate a sparkling life for your self and you babies. circulate to the courtroom abode and locate out if there's a center for abused persons for help to get out of the relationship. placed a restraining order on him to circulate away you the hell on my own. i'm sooo sorry you will desire to circulate by way of this. there is gentle on the tip of the tunnel. stable success and God velocity.
2016-10-10 17:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have kids it will be hard but if you dont it is very easy.
if you have kids you will have to get custody of the kids and get him for child support and alimony payments. you will have to be maybe on welfare for a lil while but at least you wont be in that relationship anymore. anything to get away.
now if you are without kids it is easy. you have to go to a shelter and explain your situation. you must sure have friends that might help you or maybe one of his relatives might help you out knowing the situation.start now to save money and hide it. make sure you have access to all your paperwork, like birth certificates and social security cards and health cards. make sure you have clothes and try to have a yard sale to make extra money but dont lead oon that you are leaving or it will get ugly. goodl uck.
2007-12-31 07:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to a shelter is not a Bad idea.......
Try to find one that's co-ed
You wont be embarrassed .............Cause everyone there is starting over. And pretty much has the same mentality .
Shelters have change a lot for the good nowadays , most have drug and alcohol testing to make sure everyone stays on track.
Be cautious of no co-ed shelters , some of those have other ideas how You should choose to live.
When you do find one get involved with everything they have to offer , vehicles are donated , clothes are free, its actually some of the best memory's of being down and out you'll ever have.
Many people travel the states (all kinds of ways), using the shelters and cafeterias along there way of venturing.
And man do they venture , it's nice to see what America has.
It don't cost that much money , just a determined level minded person .
Best of Wishes
2007-12-31 06:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by "Not today, Zurg!" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any friends you can crash with while you get back on your feet?
2007-12-31 06:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, hon. Gotta have some cash, ya gotta have a salable skill to support your self, and ya gotta be able to have an apartment, and drive or use public transportation to get to your job. Otherwise, you plan ahead.... get back into school now, into some training program, start stashing cash, and when you become financially more secure, you get a job, then leave....in that order.
Here are the four things my mom began hammering into my head beginning when I was 13, and they saved my socks more times than one could count. See if you can get your life back on track
1. The most important decision you will ever make is who you marry. Choose with your head as well as your heart.
2. Have no children until your bond is strong, and have no more than you yourself can support. You may just have to
3. At any and all costs finish your education to qualify for those high paying jobs. It is likely that you will work sometime during your marriage, probably for decades…. Get paid for it. And remember, your kids and your education are forever…. Husbands, lovers and promises are not!!
4. Have a stash of cash no one knows about even if you are sure you will never need it. You absolutely will, and the more the better.
Sent to you with love from my mom.
2007-12-31 06:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job, save up money, then leave
2007-12-31 06:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's abusive, contact the nearest Domestic Violence center or the National Domestic Abuse Hotline to learn where you can turn. They will give you shelter, etc. to help you out, and get you an attorney and a job.
2007-12-31 06:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Corgis4Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another man to provide everything for you.
2007-12-31 06:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Local Domestic violence program will help -even if you aren't feeling abused -you are economically challenged-they usually have a number of programs -Moms to work provides used vehicles to get you to work-and there are places they can let you stay in until you are ready for an apartment-look into your local resources
2007-12-31 06:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, earn enough to get your own vehicle and apartment to be on your own.
2007-12-31 06:36:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋