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Question

Okay...So I think I was raped wile I was sleeping a 2 months ago. I woke upwith unknow cuts. Now I have gaind whight around my stomich. I cant weight for my period because he would have coaght me me on my first. I also cant go get a test becuase if it comes positve my perants will make me abort it. So I need other tips on knowing how you are pregnet.
Like is something in ur stomich mooving and stuff...from other pregnet people

Okay...There was more evidence than just cuts for those who dont belive...

Also for the period thing thats not what I ment and dont know how to explain it so...forget about it

Answer 1

You need to talk to someone. There are people who can help with the issue of pregnancy and/or rape. Look in your local telephone book. Go to your local store and get a home pregnancy test. Your parents do not need to know. Honey, if you are pregnant, it is not something that you can hide. Your parents will find out sooner or later.
If conception happened 2 months ago (which is what I think you are saying) the baby would not be moving around to the point that you would be able to feel it.

Answer 2

hONEY i'M NOT SURE HOW OLD U R BUT U NEED TO KNOW FOR THE HEALTH OF THE BABY. LIKE PRENATLS,RIGHT DIET PERCAUTIONS AND UR OVERALL SAFTEY! U SAY U THINK U WERE RAPED IF U KNOW WHO IT WAS U CAN TAKE ACTION BUT OTHERWISE JUST BE STRONG. U NEED THE TEST RESULTS GO TO A FREE CLINIC THEY LEGALY CANT TELL PARENTS HOWEVER U WILL NEED TO AND THEY MAY BE ABLE TO HELP U TELL THEM, ALSO U GETTING PREG BY FORCE I THINK UR RENTS WILL HAVE A DIFF OPINION THAN U THINK. BESIDES ITS BETTER TO TELL THEM B4 U START TO SHOW OR HAVE SYMPTOMS. PLEASE GO TO THE CLINIC AND THEY CAN START TO POINT U IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION BC U DEFF NEED GUIDENCE EVEN ADULTS DO. I'M PREGGERS W MY FIRST AND AM 23 AND HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO SO I CANT IMAGINE HOW U FEEL. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME W UR SYMPTOMS AND THE SITUATION OR ATLEAST WHAT U RECALL OF THAT NIGHT. NO JUDGEMENT IT WAS NOT UR FAULT EVEN IF U WERE GONNA HAVE SEX BUT THEN SAID NO!!

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PLEASE EMAIL FROM A PERSONAL ADDRESS SO I CAN RESOPND IF U DO IT THROUGH THIS SITE I CANT REPLY HOPE TO HEAR FROM U!! i WISH I COULD HELP MORE BUT ALL SYMPTOMS ARE DIFF FOR DIFF PPL!!

TO LAUREN C Y WOULD U QUESTION A RAPE IN SUCH A RUDE MANNER ONLY 10% OF VICTIMS COME FORWARD U ARE A RUDE JUDGEMENTAL PERSON. JUST BC U HAVENT EXPERIENCED IT DOESNT MEAN U CAN JUDGE SOMEONES REACTION TO HOW THEY COPE MANY CHILDREN FEEL GUILTY TO A DEGREE AND OR EVEN DIRTY PUT UR SELF IN HER POSITION AND TELL ME U WOULD TELL UR RENTS RIGHT AWAY IF U SAY YES THAN U R LYING NOT AL PARENTS R UNDERSTANDING SOME DRINK OR ACT UPSET EMBARASSED TO A KID WHO LOOKS UP TO A PARENT THIS WOULD BE MORTIFING......... PLEASE HAVE A LIL MORE CLASS U CAN HAVE AN OPINION BUT PLES SUBSTANCIATE IT..

Answer 3

You can probably buy an over-the-counter home pregnancy test. Go to a drugstore where no one knows you. If you test positive, then go to one of those emergency pregnancy centers that are aimed at preventing abortion. If you test negative, then you can tell your parents without any fear of complicating the matter further. It may turn out that the cuts came from some other cause and you weren't raped at all

But what do you mean "I can't wait for my period because he would have caught me on my first"? Are you saying that you're so young that you have never HAD a period? In that case, it's unlikely, though not impossible, that you could be pregnant.

In any case, you need some adult help, and eventually your parents will have to be involved.

Answer 4

you really need to talk to your mom honey!! if you ahve been raped then you need medical attention fast. not only because of a pregnacy but diseases!! and you will need counceling! tell your mother and then get hold of planned parenthood or some health care group that can help you make decisions!! do not put it off !!!

Answer 5

you can go to the dollar store(99c stores dollar tree)
get a test take it at school or something or maybe at a friends house.. and for the Rape Please talk to your parents.. I am hurting for you right now, please tell them if not them someone.. besides they cant make you abort the baby if you want your baby then you keep it. your parents cant blame this on you it is not your fault..
im sure if you told them what happend they would help you in every way they possibly can, please tell someone that person who hurt you needs to be found and locked up! before it happens to someone else..
please Talk to your parents they love you!!!!!!

sophia
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i.m me if you have to!!!!!

Answer 6

Were you drugged or something? I mean, other than cuts, how would you believe you were raped? I mean, wouldn't you have woke up?
You are going to have to take a test. About your stomach moving, that doesn't happen until about 5 months you start to feel like there are bubbles in your stomach. The earliest signs are missed period, nausea, tiredness, morning sickness and sore breasts. But a test would be the best way to tell. And if you think this happened 2 months ago then you would be far enough to test positive.

Answer 7

Sorry, but only way to know for sure is to take a test. You can always look up your local PLanned Parenthood or other clinic, and get a test for free, and they can talk to you about all your options, and counseling if indeed you think you were raped. Healthcare is confidential, and they cannot tell your parents without your consent, as part of the HIPPA act. That is the privacy paper you are asked to sign when you visit the doctor. Good luck!

Answer 8

First off, you should of told your parents to get help if you think this really happened to you, so not sure if i believe you here.

Yeah you do have to take a test, and tell your parents. If you are pregnant YOU and the baby need prenatal care, you can not care for your own pregnancy, you need a doctor. Your parents can not force you into anything, so stop making excuses.

You would not feel your baby move till about 5-6 months in, if you would even carry the baby that far without prenatal care.

Grow up,and take a test.

Answer 9

Raven,
You need to talk to an adult like a school conselor or someone at else that you can trust. Being raped is serious and so is thinking that you are pregnant.

Answer 10

well abortion past a certain point is illegal so...and they couldnt make you abort anyways even if you are. take a damn test.