i have been married 29 years my wife says i spend way to much time on answers and she thinks my time would be beter spent watching tv or playing cards please help
2007-12-31 06:14:37 · 24 answers · asked by furface 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think if it takes precedent over eating and sleeping you have a problem. It sounds like your wife is a very smart person.
2007-12-31 06:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think your wife probably just feels left out and wants to have good conversation with you maybe you should set some time aside for her but there are worst things to be addicted too.
2007-12-31 15:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kat t 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
People get upset over the smallest things.I know I was like that at one time but I changed my ways.It's just that she feels like your spending alot of time with other people,and not enough with her.I know it's fun to do this,I spend time on it myself.Maybe try not to spend every free moment you have on it.Spend sometime with her and eventually she might ease up.Or just explain to her,that it's just a past time,just like playing golf,or video games etc.But you are willing to give up sometime away from it,to spend with her if it makes her happy,that's all she wants to hear.Try it and let us know Good luck
2007-12-31 14:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably still loves you, which is rare after that long. Maybe she is feeling left out or lonely and wishes you would spend some romantic quality time with her. Maybe plan a nice dinner and a warm bubble bath and give her a nice massage and oh yeah that's right you said you've been married 29 YEARS, she probably really wants to pay you back for all the crappy things you've done to her so now her goal is to make you go crAZY or miserable, LOL good luck.
2007-12-31 14:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I both do it, sometimes together. It's great!!!
2007-12-31 14:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Missie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can see both points. It's better that you are on here instead of out at a bar or a strip joint right? but also i think it is just that if someone spends too much time doing one thing than it can become unhealthy. I think that is all that she is worried about.
2007-12-31 14:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kaybay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I have been doing answers for about a year part time.
I just turned my guy room mate on to it and he is now hooked.
The main reason I do it is to hone in on my writing skills. I also like to go into just about every category and see how much I can learn and how smart I really am.. ha ha...I have so many best answers in my inbox it now has become a game with me to get as many as I can...There is nothing wrong doing answers and your wife must be feeling a bit left out. I can understand that too. She may want more out of you so give her the time she deserves too after all you are her best friend.. Find another time to get on to answers so that she doesn't get so jealous.. It took me about 3 months to get my room mate interested and now he is hooked and trying to race me to the highest numbers...Just have fun.. You know,
when someone sees you are enjoying yourself and they are having problems with that, then they need to take a closer look at why this is... Unless you are on for hours a day and making it a ritual...?? I enjoy it.. and then there are times I won't go on for months at a time.... So far this week I have racked up 200 points and still going strong... Have fun...
2007-12-31 14:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by mj 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe its just a case of she misses the normality of life when you wasnt on here before, of a subtle hint to say she wants to spend more time with you......why not comprimise and only go on here half the time and make the rest up wooing your wife.
2007-12-31 14:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as Long as you are making time her and not forgetting what really important then you should spend your time how you want and maybe that is her way of telling you she wants more time with you
2007-12-31 14:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hahaha!
maybe she thinks your brain is rotting away on answers, or that answers puts nasty things inside your head, or that it isn't normal.
either way, let her try to answer some of the questions, and we'll see if she doesn't hug the computer all to herself
2007-12-31 14:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by ducklingboi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋