i have been married for 2 years, before I got married I was very active in my sexual life. Now I can't seem to get in the mood. I want to please my husband but I don't want to be forced to have sex. I want to want to have to sex. What could be wrong with me?
2007-12-31 06:00:44 · 36 answers · asked by Brandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could be stuck in a rut, you could have resentments against your husband built up, you could want way more foreplay than you're getting, or you just may not like the sex you've been having when you've done it. There could also be physical reasons which should be eliminated as a cause by your doctor. And do you have children? Kids are great, but they are (at least in the short term) the most effective intimacy-syphons known to humankind. Good luck as you investigate these possibilities. Happy New Year.
2007-12-31 06:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you butt is old...lol
2007-12-31 06:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzy Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whew - I thought you ment you were out of money...
This is easy: FOREPLAY AND LOTS OF IT.
Liverlips- LMAO :)
2007-12-31 06:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Do I need a mint? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage could mean that your life style and responsibilities have changed. Men, may always rate sex as priority with changes in life. Women on the other hand may just drop the sex all the way down the meter. You say you want to "want to" have sex, why not just make the effort on oral and other thinks that is imaginative? Then the Not in the mood (being dryness/pain I suspect) problem can be put aside. Yup, you two can enjoy keeping each other happy.
If it is a medical matter that you suspect then go see a doctor (age, hormon, diet).
2007-12-31 06:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by t_boxmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a psychological problem or a medical problem. First, get a physical to make sure that your physical health is in good shape. If you don't get answers there, see a marriage counselor, who can help you work through possible psychological issues that might be causing trouble for you. Best wishes to you and your husband.
2007-12-31 06:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not think so but this is a good time to see a doctor. He can refer you to whatever specialist you may need to solve your problem. It may be hormonal and some suppliments may do the trick. It may be physological (sp) and it wouldn't hurt to see a councelor for a while. Don't ignore the issue thinking it may repair itself someday.
2007-12-31 06:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by mksjmyd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you.
Things in the bedroom have probably gotten boring for you.
I think you should try to be creative in the bed. Get food involved, blind folds, ect.
The main thing you need to realize is communication with your husband is very important. Tell him what you want and need.
Men are not built to read women's minds. They can't just look at you and know what you want.
Talk to him about what you need. There is no reason for you to be embarrased about it.
2007-12-31 06:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. Your feelings are about normal.
Relax, think nice thoughts. discuss how to get the situation going with your partner.
Perhaps music, lighting, clothing can assist. Don't try to force things but do enjoy the pleasure of it all.
2007-12-31 06:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by organbuilder272 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could check with your doctor and see if your hormone levels are low. That can cause a lack of sex drive. Also, if the marriage has gone through some changes recently, if you feel more seperate from him for whatever reasons, that could be another reason. Good Luck ! :)
2007-12-31 06:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are you are tired or have hit a funk
2007-12-31 06:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋