a old friend of mine told me that his wife said to him, "i love you but i am not in love with you." he knows there is something wrong in their marriage. he says that marriage shouldn't carry on but he is expecting her makes first move.
i don't know how to advice this cos i don't want to mess up.
2007-12-31 05:55:08 · 74 answers · asked by Rose M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means she cares about him because of the fact they are married, but she's not really INTO him like a man and woman are when they first meet or when they are passionate about each other. She probably is not sexually attracted to him anymore?
2007-12-31 05:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-27 00:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you? If you dont want to 'mess-up', DO NOT GET INVOLVED!! You must distance yourself from your old friends marital problems ASAP-its nowt to do with you&if the sh1t hits the fan, you may possibly catch some of it. Let them sort their marital problems out for themselves-there is plenty of professional help out there for them-but YOU should keep your distance.
2008-01-01 00:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves him as a friend, she has another man that is messing with her emotions that she has falling in love with let her go she will find out the grass is not greener on the other side,this is what my ex-wife told me. its call cheating
2007-12-31 06:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by snowman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probs doesn't know.
2007-12-31 06:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means she cares / has committment to them / the marriage but the sexual part is not there. tell your freind that if he wants the marriage to get better / they need to work on getting back in "in love" . if he wants out of the marriage , then he'll have to be the one to do it because she is saying that she loves him and wants to keep the marriage even though it's lacking being "in love". he'll need to be the one to make the decision / as she is committed / "loves him" even though she's "not in love". married men use this language all the time , " i'm in love with my wife / but not in love and she's the mother of my children. " the translation , is i'm married and i'm staying married / there is justification for an extramarital affair because they are after all "not in love" lol. i have a girlfriend and she's been seeing a married guy for 10 years. he uses the same excuse all the time / he can never see her on holidays and any other time than friday nights because of his family . sad for all three people. (my girlfriend / her married lover and his wife. )
2007-12-31 06:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mildred S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the oldest line of sh** in the book. She is having an affair!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-31 06:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means that she loves him and cares for him as a friend, not as a husband and lover. In other words she is not sexually attracted to him. It would be better for them to part and find love elsewhere. Painful but true.
2007-12-31 06:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she's cheating or thinking about cheating or watching to much dr phil/oprah/jerry springer
2007-12-31 05:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that she cares about him and want him to be happy, just not with her. And this especially goes in the sex department.
2007-12-31 05:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋