I would not be going as I will probably be sleeping and we have two small children that I will be taking care of.
2007-12-31 05:31:45 · 60 answers · asked by Tatoo 17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, I'd be upset because traditionally (and perhaps a bit superstitiously) how you start the year is indicative of how the rest of the year will go....spend it together; be together most of the year. Spend it with co-workers, and you'll have to deal with those MFs all year long, even when you don't want to. Superstitions aside, she should want to come and celebrate some small portion of it with you ....especially while the kids are sleeping, don't you think?
However it goes, Happy New Year!
2007-12-31 05:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 3⤊ 4⤋
hear.. If i've got been your husband I chosen family individuals over something. possibly a particular buddy can connect the hot Years party. would not make experience that your husband is doing this.. family individuals is important than something. you certainly would desire to communicate issues out with him, ask him how might he like it in case you left him on your individuals and him and the babies stay abode.
2016-10-10 17:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, this is a loaded question.
Is she in the sex industry?
Does she normally go out with co-workers after a shift?
Does co-workers mean one cute guy or a real group?
Do you have any reason to believe she is up to no good?
Does she have any addictions?
Were you invited?
do you normally go out on NY together?
Any other spouses invited?
Will she be hung over and ugly the next day?
My feeling is, she should go home, but it is not something you can insist on. Either she wants to be with you or she wants to be out hooting around.
Why not find out what the truth is, instead of using your emotions to browbeat her?
I guess you need to find out the truth of her feelings and committment, instead of deciding whether or not to be upset.
You may BE upset, but so what?
Maybe she is trying to tell you something you need to know and deal with. Maybe she isn't committed, maybe she is trying to escape her responsibility.
I would tell her, I think she should decide what she wants to do, and go do it. Tell her it bothers you, if it does.
Communicate! This might be a chance to make real communication possible, instead of reaction, hurt feelings, unanswered questions, and deceit.
2007-12-31 05:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, i'd be bothered.
2007-12-31 05:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mandibulin 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
No, Dont be a controlling ******. You have no reason to want to have her home other than that you arent there, and have no plans to do it. Did you want to hang out with her at 4AM?
2007-12-31 05:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by threegooofs 5 · 3⤊ 4⤋
If it was MY wife i would be. It would have to be a private party as no bars would be open& would just be asking for trouble!
2007-12-31 05:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tired Old Man 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
No. If the tables were reversed, would "she" be upset if you went out with your buddies? I'd say NOT. So sounds to me like she's the one bringing home the bacon. That means she get "time to go with her buddies". You sound like your a stay at home dad so Stay Home And Take Care Of The Babies.
2007-12-31 05:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
yes i would be upset
2007-12-31 05:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by justcurious 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
No, your evening is already screwed. Let her have a good time.
2007-12-31 05:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Harry O 3 · 3⤊ 4⤋
since she's not my wife.. no.
so why can't she have a good time since she's working.
2007-12-31 05:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
yeahh... how inconsiderate of her. she should at least invite you along
2007-12-31 05:34:58 · answer #11 · answered by snowangels 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋