2007-12-31 05:24:05 · 16 answers · asked by babak_khoramdin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would bother me a lot. We were each other's first and last.
2007-12-31 05:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ тнє σяιgιиαℓ gιяℓfяι∂αу ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most of the world operates that way.
2007-12-31 17:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wife & I discussed this before we got married. We consider it water under the bridge and agreed to never bring it up. That was 21 years ago and we are still married. I only care about what she does after we got married. That's what counts.
Kent in SD
2007-12-31 14:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by duckgrabber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has slept with loads of women just as i have with other guys and so what? was he supposed to keep himself as pure as the driven snow before he met me, and vice versa? Of course not. This is 2007, not 1937.
2007-12-31 13:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by colgirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cultures differ greatly in this matter. It is uncommon to find a virgin in this day and age. If you truly love him/her forgive. Just as long as it was BEFORE you married and not SINCE you've married.
2007-12-31 13:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by rhiannon0913 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like years before...ever (in another relationship)? or like hours before? there is a difference
2007-12-31 13:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we were dating? Or when we didn't even know each other?
2007-12-31 13:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by ˚despeяate housewife˚ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you were together as a couple? or before your wedding?
before you got togther shouldn't matter as long as they had safe sex.
get them tested.
2007-12-31 13:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by cocolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wonder why they lied to me in the first place
i would also wonder why they felt like they needed to lie
in this day and age, how could you NOT assume that your mate had had sex with someone else? why is that so important to you? why would your spouse lie about it? it is not the virginity issue you should be concerned with...but, the lying
and i would assume that there is some reason there for lying
2007-12-31 13:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't that what you are suppossed to do???? Once you are married you are suppossed to have a commitment and NOT have sex with others.
2007-12-31 13:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋