Well Im 12 and in the 7th grade and my boyfriend is 13 and in 8th grade we both love eachother to death because we're neighbors so we see eachother alot! (sometimes) Weve been going out six months and have only pecked and maybe a few of those movie kisses =]] but not making out! my parents know that but they still think were gonna have sex because of "horomones"
2007-12-31 04:36:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
WE DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX WEVE TALKED ABOUT IT, SAYING THAT WERE NOT GOING TOO.
2007-12-31 04:44:33 · update #1
neither one of us have any desire to have sex infact i dont even like kissing him all i want are hugs. =]] we are more like friends actually you have to see us and meet us to understand why my parents confronting me about this is so bizarre because they know both of us would never do something like that
2007-12-31 04:54:36 · update #2
Im sorry some of you are not understnading this I DO SEE all the girls who say they are 13 and pregnant! I WILL NOT LET THAT HAPPEN TO ME! If he even comes to me and asks to have sex with me I would slap him across the face kick him in the nuts and tell him to go find a slut thatll have sex with him. sorry but its true.
2007-12-31 07:49:49 · update #3
Parents, they do not want to accept a lot that their little girl is growing up and besides yes hormones drive people crazy but talking about things will help y ou set your boundries and where you want things to go. Ask your parents baout their worries and follow up with your info, show them you are mature, see if they want to ask questions and then answer them but follow up with your own questions.
2007-12-31 05:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Hiro a Hero? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't really know what your question is.
I suppose your parents' obsession with your having sex could become a self-fulfilling prophecy, by making you think about it so much that eventually you'll feel compelled to do it. Kids do tend to live up (or down) to their parents' expectations.
Just be aware that hormones are more powerful than you can ever imagine and can take hold without any warning whatever, clouding your judgment and overwhelming you with urges that you may not be able to control. It's their job to force you to make more of you, whether that's your intention or not.
The best thing to do is NOT to talk about not having sex, but to avoid situations where you might be tempted to, like making out when no one is around or playing around to see how far you can go and still stop.
I appreciate your situation. And your parents' concern. Just continue to be aware of the dangers and remember that your parents were your age once but you've never been an adult.
2007-12-31 10:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them what u think!!
happy new year
2007-12-31 06:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gald you've deciced not to and if i were you i would stick to that decision.
2007-12-31 04:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by kt baby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to them that neither of you are ready for anything like that and that they should trust you. And make sure you do your part too...don't do anything to show them they can't trust you.
2007-12-31 04:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by flynn503 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can (and should) listen to your parents.
Just tell your boyfriend that you are no longer aloud to go out with him, and if he gets mad, then why would you even want to go out with a guy that doesn't respect what your parents want?
You have much to learn.
2007-12-31 04:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well, I'm glad to hear that you have a great friend but trust me "loving eachother to death" is no reason to have sex at 12 & 13 years old. I personally think you shouldn't even be dating. Trust me, I wasted a lot of time dating in high school. There are so many other things you could be doing with your life.
Whatever you do, please don't have sex at this age. I don't want to be seeing "OMG I had sex, can I be pregnant?" in a few weeks here.
Sex is for grown ups and has a lot of consequences that I don't think a 12 & 13 year old are prepared to deal with. Just keep him as a friend and revisit this issue in about 5 years.
Best of luck!
2007-12-31 04:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Goose 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
12?
Nope. I wouldn't let the two of you be alone at all. If you want to date and your parents are that liberal...I would pick you both up...drive you to the movies..with other friends of yours...sit in the movie behind you...drive you to the pizza shop..sit in the car...and then drive him to his home watch him walk into the house and greet his parents....
and then take you home...tuck you into bed and LOCK THE DOORS AND WINDOWS!
Be 12..its fun. Its great. Crushes are exciting..but there will be 10 more guys behind this guy that will sweep you off your feet. BE PICKY!
and...follow mom and dad's house rules.
2007-12-31 04:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by foxinsox 6 · 6⤊ 4⤋
Your parents are wise - you should be on some form of birth control - or stop dating.
2007-12-31 04:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by Prophet 1102 7 · 5⤊ 3⤋
you have to gain trust in them and did you eer even tell them that you were not going to?? Make sure you tell the man about this to.
2007-12-31 04:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by hannah ka'zam :) 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋
In cases like yours, where young children on the verge of their teenage years, they dont set out to have sex. It happens in the heat of a moment.
Your parents are right to assume you're going ot have sex and to act accordingly.
Parents arent stupid, they know more than you do, even about yourself.
2007-12-31 04:39:50 · answer #11 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 7⤊ 3⤋