I would like to hear from any women who have had this experience. I find this addiction disturbing and I think that it must lead to relationship problems. Is this true?
2007-12-31 04:14:45 · 8 answers · asked by online now 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do you have to ASK?????????????
He's a pervert! You say he's ADDICTED! You know what the word means and how much weight is carries, right? It's not like he ocasionally does that...just like any other guy (eww anyway)! You say "addicted." That's not something you want to deal with. I don't see how you can find excuses for someone who can't control himself and can't stop (addicted) to act like this. If it's excuses you're lloking for, excuse me for being blunt, you won't find any.
If this is a guy you REALLY love soooo much and you've been with him for a long time (a relationship worth fighting for, not something new or not that long), take him to counseling!!!!! This is to help him!
2007-12-31 04:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, about 50% of all divorces these days have some connection to internet addiction including overuse of porn. Check out www.pornaddicthubby.com for more info.
2008-01-01 11:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they cross the line where it becomes an addiction, the porn becomes their reality, it is a big problem. So, their reality is a female with over-processed hair, tiny waists, HUGE boobs, no cellulite, no stretch marks, who are willing to let a man do anything and everything to them including severe pain, sex with anyone and everyone regardless of gender, nastiness (or even in the same species) and of course, these women love all of it (yeah right). That is a glimpse of this guy's reality and after awhile, the only way they can be aroused. SO, if you aren't like that or able to be like that for the next several years (if you are considering long-term), prepare yourself for no sex life and feeling really undesirable while their in the other room dealing with their own needs to a picture of Jenna Jameson or someone else equally skanky.
2007-12-31 15:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is going to be easy to be involved with someone like this. For some people they might be able deal with and understand it in the context of a high sex drive perhaps.
2007-12-31 12:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by ADad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "addicted?" Men are more visual than women. It's quite normal for a man to enjoy pornography. If you can't deal with it, then it's possible this man isn't for you. He really isn't doing anything wrong.
2007-12-31 12:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Puggypug 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The large part played in porn addiction is mostly the illicitness. In our clan we are encouraged to view and thereby no one has an addiction of this sort as there is no clandestine thrill. It is likened and akin to watching meat hung on hooks in a butchers. Breaking taboos is part of the cure...
Be Moral, Be Free.
2007-12-31 12:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by VAndors Excelsior™ (Jeeti Johal Bhuller)™ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We are insatiable creatures. Sometimes my wife and I watch a little porn together. Sometimes we focus more on the romance of making love and sometimes I watch alone. We have a great relationship. It is due to communication.
2007-12-31 12:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt it obvious? he cant control himself. its not really the porn, its the fact he cant get a grip (hahaha grip, no pun intended!!)
2007-12-31 12:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋