okay, so i'm 8 months preggos, and i dont feel like doing anything for new years eve. i'm tired. my body is HUGE, and i just am not into this year. soo...me and my boyfriend were going to go to his brother's place, which is about 1 hour away, for new years eve, but i bailed--my boyfriend is still going.
should i be upset that we're not spending new years eve together? i dont feel upset, but i think i should be...unsure. i mean, shouldn't we spend NYE together? confused.
2007-12-31 04:00:14 · 13 answers · asked by happypants 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i think you guys are right. i dont care, but people are making it look like i should, but it's fine by me if he wants to go. of course, i would like to spend time w/ him on NYE, but it's not that big of a deal. and i'll see him all day on the 1st.
2007-12-31 04:06:04 · update #1
just 1 egg: we are committed. we've been together since 3/06, and we have been living together for almost 1 year. i dont know why you think we arent committed ??? i just trust my boyfriend, and know that i will see him all day on the first. and dont know if it's such a big deal if he goes out on NYE. he's going to his brother's house, and there will be 4 other COUPLES (most of whom are married) and that's it. i just want him to have fun. and we spend A LOT of time together, so i feel bad asking him to stay....and dont fully care if he stays, but at the same time, i would like to kiss him at 12am....just confused is all.
2007-12-31 04:19:28 · update #2
i spoke w/ my boyfriend. i told him i was not mad, but i would like to spend NYE together. and we are. so that's that. like my co-worker said: sometimes with guys you have to spell it out to them. i dont expect my b/f to be a mind reader. i do want to spend time w/ him on NYE and i should've just admitted it to myself. i wasnt mad; i was just sad that we werent spending it together. now, we are and i'm happy!
2007-12-31 05:11:42 · update #3
It's okay for you to be a little upset, but honestly, why not let him have fun? You were invited and chose not to go. That shouldn't mean he has to miss out.
I'm 20 weeks pregnant. I have to work tonight. I tried convincing my husband to go out with his friends and have a good time without me, but he refuses. He says if I can't go then he's not going. I feel even worse about that. I feel like I'm making him skip out on his friends!
2007-12-31 04:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey's Mommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should not be upset cuz you decided to bail. it is only new year's...have your own little party
2007-12-31 04:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by breegehemi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just made another talley mark for Baby Mama Drama.
2007-12-31 04:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey this is me and my husbands first new years as a married couple. i am pregnant...he wants me to go sit at some sleezy bar with him and his buddies, but i am not going too...i am little upset that he is going to go with out me while i sit at home with the kids, but i am not at all mad...i mean i cant expect him to do nothing as well...if you are ok with him going without you, then thats fine...its up to you, people cant tell you to be mad at him!! haha good luck relax and enjoy your free time! have a happy new year!
2007-12-31 04:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by *NuBCaKe* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in the usual committed relationship that yes you would be spending the NYE together. But he is just your boyfriend, never mind that you are pregnant, you don't sound that committed. You don't care if he goes and he doesn't care that he is leaving you alone. He'd obviously rather go have fun never-mind that you are not up to it because you are swollen with his child. This just doesn't bode well for your future together.
Good luck
2007-12-31 04:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~Just 1 good egg~ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, Just go mad on him. He should be with you every day to take care of you. Not only one day. You make a good choose not to do party becuse NYE every one will be drinking and gone crazy.
I say, go really mad on him even those you are not.. Just to let him know that you really need him. Don't take no for answer...
Good Luck and Happy New Year.
2007-12-31 04:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Not ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be fair, you are the one who bailed out on your already made plans. I wouldn't hold it too much against him to still go ahead with the plans, especially since it's with his brother.
Should your boyfriend be home and miserable just because you don't want to go out?
2007-12-31 04:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by That's not my name 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ok with it, nothing else matters.
2007-12-31 04:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey only you can really answer that question. It's understandable you not feeling like going. Maybe your just feeling the need to spend a little time alone....then maybe feeling a little guilt for wanting to be by yourself for a while? The important thing is just to trust your feelings and explain them to your BF.
Good Luck and Happy New Year
2007-12-31 04:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by mrs_b40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You decided not to go....He didnt ditch you but its unfair for you to make him sit at home with you. You could still go with him, its not too late and if you get tired or whatever go to sleep.
2007-12-31 04:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by cherokee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋