why......Why......WHY...........?

Question

Do some girls kill their unwanted babies, when there are so many women out there trying desperately to have a baby? Can someone please explain that to me???

I have about 3 or 4 married friends who have been trying so long to get pregnant....why do the ones who really want a baby have such a hard time getting pregnant, and the ones who don't want babies get pregnant so easily???

Not everyone who kills an unwanted baby is a rape victim.

Answer 1

I hear ya sweetie. Its unfair and its ashame.. I have been ttc#1 going on my 8th month waiting impatiently until wednesday cause than I will be LATE =) but.... my sister has 3 kids and got pregnant easily.. She didnt even try.. I think thats apart of it.. The harder you try the harder it becomes because our bodies are stressed to the max and we get shut down month after month with the BFN! =( Her husband can no longer have kids, they figured 3 kids was enough and now she is encouraging me to keep trying and it will happen and than I have a friend of mines who sister is 17yrs old and got pregnant and she just had the baby right before xmas & she didnt want it until she gave birth and now she is keeping it of course.. But all these KIDS having KIDS and killing them or not wanting them.. and the people who have kids cant treat them right, or feed them or clothe them and are on welfare and keep having kids.. Its disgusting and pisses me off actually.. I hope your from becomes pregnant soon! and she gets bleesed with her new bundle of joy! just pray and with prayer all questions are answered sooner or later.... GOOD LUCK!!!

and happy new year!!!

Answer 2

i was hurt badly if i see news on tv that says abandoned child or fetus being aborted....

mayb those mothers were unwed mothers, or rape victims, maybe student who cannot take home her child to her parents..mayb due to poverty..

we cannot judge them...they r entitled to their own decision...

let's just pray that somebody who did that to their own child could possibly ask forgiveness to our GOD...it's really a sin to abandon or worse, killing a baby ...

bcoz whatever happened to the parents, d child has d right to live in our world...

Answer 3

So what!Ppl sometimes be in certain situations and don't want to carry a baby for 9mths and give it away.That leave you always wondering if there o.k,how he or she would look now.And not to mention it's a small world and what if you have more kids and they run into each other in life?????Get a grip.Stop worrying about other ppl lives.Different things call for extreme measures.

Answer 4

i tell my husband the exact same thing. it's just not fair! i will never understand why girls get abortions or why they're still legal. if you are mature enough to have sex, then you are mature enough to be a parent, right? i ended a friendship with a friend i had since childhood because she had three abortions with three different men. that's out of control! bottom line, i don't know why god gives irresponsible little children babies, and leaves us women who have been trying to conceive for months hanging. well... good luck! i hope you, and your friends conceive very soon!

Answer 5

Why do you care?! Its not your life, personally I would NOT get an abortion especially since I have been trying to have a baby for a while now. But its not your choice to sit there and judge people especially rape victims, why would they want to look at their rapists face everytime they see their child? They would probably NEVER love that child like it should be because of that! Just mind your own business!

Answer 6

I agree with you all the way. My older sister wants a baby so bad and it seems like it is impossible for her to get pregnant. I had a phone conversation with her recently and she said to me "there are so many people out their like me who want a baby, and I felt bad for her." I am against abortion all the way and I believe in God and that everything happens for a reason. In my opinion if you get pregnant it was in God's will and you should take care of your child and not kill them.

Answer 7

Oh I know... It isnt fair! I have been trying for several years and it kills me with agonizing pain to see someone kill there baby when I want one so bad!

Answer 8

I wish I could answer this, me myself is having a hard time conceiving and my sister makes kids very easily, she have 2 kids already a boy and girl and she don't want anymore, and every time she gets pregnant she gets an abortion. I have some friends who cant even take care of baby#1 and ended up with baby #2 and #3 and its so hard for me to look at things like that without crying, all I can say is I guess its the plan of the Lord we can't ask him why or anything I guess we'll have to wait for our time.

I hope your friends get bless soon

ttc#1 w pcos for 4 years

Answer 9

I know its disgusting. I think some of these baby-killing women are in different parts of the world where its unacceptable to have a child out of wedlock, etc. Its a shame.