me and my co worker were closed, flirting each other until i fell in love,he is 46 (he is single never married)and iam 40...........the story----- i mentioned i am separated...... i said, im in love, i love you...... then left right away....next day he said --what you said same feelings......we cant talk cuz its working time......its our day off, i phoned him 5times, text messages, he never called....my messages are -where are you,just start our relation youre hurting me ,have time for me too.............when we were in the clock in, i asked you are not answering my calls.......he was mad,raised voices.......saying STOP HARRASSING, IM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.........was like a bomb explode and i was hit........he never gave me the chance to talk and you know what he even reported this to the management for harrassing.......... right now, just like we dont know each other.
2007-12-31 01:56:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps you misread the signals, then came on too strong. That can scare an interested guy away. If he was flirting, perhaps he thought it innocent and never dreamed that you would take it seriously. People can and often do perceive situations very differently.
RULE OF THUMB: Because of the differing views about love between males and females, it's usually best to allow the guy to say "I love you" first. Generally speaking, women these days tend to be too anxious when it comes to locking in a romantic relationship.
2007-12-31 02:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope, this often occurs while wrestlers sign with yet another employer. The chants will flow away in time as he re-starts off his profession in WWE. The chanting isn't his fault and there isn't any want or reason to launch him for that.
2016-12-18 13:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by fuchser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story is really hard to read.
It sounds like what you interpreted as flirting was not flirting to him. The other thought is that when you told him you were separated, he lost interest.
Why would you assume that a man is gay for not wanting your advances? Do you really think that all men are interested in every girl that shows an interest in them?
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-31 05:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you've been reported to management over harassment, I think you should be more worried about your job than him not being romantically interested in you.
Rule #1---don't eat where you sh!t.
2007-12-31 02:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
46 never married?
He is A.momma boy B.gay C.player D. all of the above
Most likely D.
2007-12-31 02:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was a fun flirtation that is all. Be embarrassed and stop it. There is nothing wrong with him he was jsut flirting and never intended it to go further.
2007-12-31 02:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Southern Comfort 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just because you were in love with him, doesn't mean he had the same feelings. Maybe you misunderstood what he told you. Apologize to him and leave him alone. That is all you can do.
2007-12-31 02:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by *Almost ready* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a bit shy or timid of relationships and it certainly sounds it.....then by you coming on strong in almost demanding where is he...why do u hurt me already...he probably thought "oh no...im not going into this" . So you should have continued as you were fora while and let him make the first efforts on his own time when he was ready for it.
2007-12-31 02:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by jslorri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't welcome your advances, period. Do you talk like you type? That alone would annoy someone. If you phoned or texted someone once & they did not return it, back off - 5+ times is over the top!
Maybe you need some counseling. If you are throwing yourself at someone this desperately, you need to learn some control over your emotions. Yes, dating in your 40's & after a long marriage is hard, but you need to learn better techniques or you will always scare men off. Counseling will help.
2007-12-31 02:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglynnie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We can't know what the issue is, but simply because he passed up a relationship with you doesn't make him gay.
The point is though that for whatever reason(s) he doesn't want to pursue anything...respect that and move on.
2007-12-31 02:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋