I have been married for two years and WE HAVE TWO KIDS but i have never orgasmed with my husband. i have had several relationships in the past, about three guys but none of them could make me climax. Does is it mean i have a problem. I do masturbate and i orgasm on my own, but i want to feel it with my husband. he feels frustrated because he cannot make me orgasm. i dont know if he thinks i am a freak or frigid. he also might start having affairs, HELP ME PLEASE.
2007-12-31 01:43:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is so common. Most women only have crazy orgasms in porno flicks, and those are faked.
I'm 31 yrs old, and have had a very active sex life. I've yet to have an orgasm through vaginal intercourse. The only way I can have one is to have the guy touch me the same way I touch myself. There's nothing wrong with you. I asked my female friends if they had the same issue, and I got an all around yes.
2007-12-31 01:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
You don't have a problem. Only about half of all women orgasm from only intercourse. Either include your fingers during sex or show your husband how. I have the same situation (50% chance right ?) and thoroughly enjoy masturbating my wife to orgasm or watching her do it. I usually do it to her before intercourse. Insure your husband it's NOBODY's fault.
2008-01-02 12:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by ict39 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yup. I would love one good man I don't have to share i.e., puts everyone and everything else before me. Edit: Dang, Sophee should relax. She just became a block of cheese. What, she doesn't know you're our resident good guy/stud?
2016-04-02 04:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not bring some toys into the bedroom and experimant on using them with him so he can see what works. Your sex life isn't ruined. It's no secret you can't climax with him... so why is it ruined all of a sudden? He obviously has no problem with it-- you have 2 kids. As long as you are keeping him satisfied, there should be no reason for him to stray for sexual reasons.
2007-12-31 03:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be able to have a vag O, you need to stop masturbating for about 2 weeks. Then, I would suggest you being on top. BUT, he should do oral first. It highly sensitizes your entire area and increases the blood flow.
Also to try, do it with you on top, facing away from him (reverse cowgirl). You can then masturbate while he is inside of you and you will both be able to have your O at the same time.
I had the same problem but thru oral then me on top, I got to the point that I was having like 6 vag Os in one session. VERY INTENSE!!! Trust me, it works.
2007-12-31 01:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by BrownEyedGirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You BOTH have to recognize that it is so much harder for women to orgasm vaginally than clitorally. There are hardly any nerve endings in the vaginal canal compared to the TONS located in the clitoral area. Go with the previous advice and start teaching him how you pleasure yourself, and make it fun. Do you have oral sex? If he wants to make you come that's a guaranteed orgasm right there once he gets his technique down.
2007-12-31 01:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sophra 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
U need to know urself. U have to masturbate and climax to know what does it for u. For me, the quickest way for me to climax is being on top. U gotta know how u like it. Have ur husband do oral on u, don't let him stop til he finds the spot! When he finds it YOU will know it! Good luck!
2007-12-31 01:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES! it is the men's fault.. Most men don't have a clue what to do, and some are unwilling to listen and learn because they feel they know all!! Just keep masturbating if you want. Why would you worry about his having affairs. If he can't keep you happy in bed, why would you think he is going keep another woman happy for?? LOL It's laughable because men think they know how to do it and the majority are CLUELESS!!! LOL KEEP TRYING GUYS! LOL
Note: LOL I will bet a hundred bucks that it was men who gave this post a thumbs down. too much! LOL LOL
2007-12-31 01:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Call your husband a pathetic little worm.
2007-12-31 01:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 9⤋
Show your husband how to do what you do, when you get yourself to climax. If you can do it for yourself, someone else should be able to do that same thing and get the same result.
Good luck!
2007-12-31 01:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋