I recently moved leaving mi bestest friend back home, its all good cus we txt each other n all but thats not wat im worried about...
Um She dumped this guy then lyk 2 mins later asked out another guy, so this first guy wont txt her or any thing..n wen i told her he wont talk to ova wat she did..she was just lyk 'Oh cus i dumped him?' but she did more than that..this guy n i are gr8 friends n he was really hurt..
Also this other guy that she asked out..h8's her to..he told me that she messed him up..lol. they went out a few times but now he will barely talk to her.
Atm she is going out with a whole different guy...We were in grade 8 this year (2007) and in the last term or so she started to change it was lyk she wouldnt stand to be single n stuff lyk dat..
I really duno wat to do..whether i should say some thing to her about it and im findin it hard to sit here n hear wat ppl are sayin about her and all she will think about is wat they have done to her not vice verser...
=S
2007-12-31 00:04:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i had a friend like this and i told her i thought she was very coquettish like flirty and i had this whole theory about how she was desperate and i wasn't mean to her about it and she kinda brushed it off but later it was ammunition for huge fights and now we aren't good friends, we are nice to each other but we don't talk that much == she is still the same way she is with boys and always wanting to be with one
my advice to you is just to stay out of it unless you really see it messing up her life and the other boys just say "hey im your best friend and im here for you i just think you should cool it with the boys because you end up hurting people and its uneccessary" and only get involved if she asks for your opinion or your advice because otherwise she'll just get mad at you and now that you moved (i moved away also) it will become harded to stay close friends i think you should pull her aside and just let her know what people are saying and just tell her youre lookin out for her best interests and your not tryin to hurt her you just got her back
2007-12-31 00:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pineapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone.
2007-12-31 00:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by ted j 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, bless your heart. I tried to read this twice and I have no idea what you're talking about. (I suspect using the word "bestest" is like rubber-stamping "I'm a child" on your forehead, though.) What ever is the issue here, I hope it works out to your satisfaction. Good luck to you, and Happy New Year.
2007-12-31 00:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your friend, say something to her. You took the effort to write out this whole big story, you could have wrote her a message by now. Be like, "Look best friend, you need to change this and that because it bothers me and this and that". Good luck! GPM
2007-12-31 00:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by alex l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your question more plain. I am a overgrown adult and this is like solving a puzzle reading this.
2007-12-31 00:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sunday's Best 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋