I wrote this guy that I really like who likes me just as much...we have been talking a few months now and I text him saying " Hey, just thought I would text you... I am having crappy sleep tonight lol so i am bored trying to find things to do lol. You are really sweet to me :). Everytime I talk to you you are. I just want to kiss you!." and I felt comfortable saying that ..i mean he sends me emails with xoxo on them. And he wrote back when he got it and said "awww...You are too sweet!" I mean it was not a bad reply i think..i was just expecting something a little more gratifying since I put myself out there and said that...something like "I want to kiss you too". Is his reply bad? I dont know if that means he would like that or not..is it good? really good? how do you percieve it..ty! And btw, he has called me beautiful, pretty, and amazing before...
2007-12-30 22:55:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
he probably wasn't expecting it and really did not know how to answer you back
2007-12-30 22:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have just played it down because maybe he wasn't sure if you meant it like that? In case he embarassed himself if you were just being friendly. If you both like eacother then bit by bit you can keep hinting.
A similar thing happened to me when I first liked my now husband! I sent him an ecard saying ' I like you' on the feather of a peacock. He asked me out right ' Aw, what do you mean by that?' and I was too embarassed, I just said ' I mean I like you, you are a good friend!'
2007-12-31 08:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a nice answer having in mind how you started your message with the stuff about being bored and texting him because you have nothing else to do. Your message was not exactly straughtforward so his isn't either. Well, that's quite normal, though, because you are still in the flirtng stage and flirting can be quite an elusive game when you ask yourself all the time, Does he really like me? If he does, how much? How far is he ready to go? My advice is: If you want to know the answer to those questions, keep playing the game and you will find out eventually.
2007-12-31 07:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by petyado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Ask him if he loves you! if he says yes, your set and if he says no, you know he isn't for you :S
Good luck!
Ella.
2007-12-31 07:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you so I wouldn't worry about. He may be just taking things a little slow right now. Relax and wait to see his reaction the next time you meet. He may surprise you.
2007-12-31 07:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by Teresa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to over analyze, but i understand, its fustratign when someone doesnt give as much as they oughto.
Next time dont put too many sweet things to see how he responds, if he starst it off.
Do you know how he feels about you exactly?
Try to get him to open his feelings up to you, not just so you know how he feels, but also its a sign he accepts you in his life!
Good Luck! :)
mq
2007-12-31 06:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he probally just didnt know what to say back.
dont worry :D
2007-12-31 06:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jordyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him this
2007-12-31 06:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by GreenGasp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋