I know it's late, but i'm feeling down. It seems like the more I know the more sad I get. I guess i'm losing that innocence when i'm learning how the world thinks. It's not kind at all. Maybe it's my own fault for asking so much questions here. Some of the answers I get that are hateful really stick to me. There is so much hatefulness. I feel really effected by people's hateful opinions of myself and to other people.
Questions is why do I take the opinions of others to heart? I know i'm not suppose to live for the world.
I know I have my own faults too, and i'm sorry if I come out as ignorant minded and all. For that I am sorry. Is it healthier to take a break from questions?
2007-12-30 20:28:44 · 5 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't feel bad, you are just a caring person, that's all. I am the same way, people tell me all the time that I am too serious and I care too much. Just some advice, NEVER let people's words get to you, if someone makes a joke or hateful pun about you, laugh it off, I guarantee you they will immediately change how they act toward you. (Though this doesn't work on people who already know you.) It will take more time for those people to adjust. Secondly, NEVER stop caring, this world needs more caring people. Don't take -everything- to heart though, sometimes caring too much is not good for you. Just be true to yourself and to others and don't let life bring you down, I -KNOW- how you feel, trust me, I've been there and far beyond.
2007-12-30 20:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by LlyodZ. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey others opinions are good if they are other christians i can tell that you your self are a christian by the questions that you ask and the way that you respond God is the only judge of you and you and others are unperfect just like you said ask god and he will give you the right answer all the time even if its not the one you want
2007-12-31 09:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take them to heart because unlike MOST guys, you actually have a heart!! (((hugs)))
2007-12-31 06:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Harley Mama!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow the opinion of the world to define you. Define yourself and what the world thinks doesn't matter anymore.
The strength you seek is already within you, via the DSL link to the source of all knowing which the religious folks call God.
"The Kingdom of Heaven is within you"
There is a free/streaming mental exercise online which will help you to wake up. But beware, the first truth you see will be the truth about yourself.
It's a wild ride but you will emerge being the kind of person you always wanted to be. Confident.
2007-12-30 20:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel because I do the same. I get upset by cruel or thoughtless remarks.
My dad used to say "The time to worry about what other people think is when they are paying your bills for you". I guess its good advice!
2007-12-30 20:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋