I met this guy at a Christmas party he is 28 I am 19 but we really hit it off and later he invited me to his house and we had sex and I stayed overnight it has been 8 days since then and he hasnt contacted ma again until today and he asked me if I could go to his apartment and hang out and have fun tomorrow night
since he has waited so long before contacting me do you think hes in it just for the sex
2007-12-30 15:50:18 · 32 answers · asked by Mae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex on the first date? What happened to after marriage?
No I don't think he wanted just sex, I think he wanted a one night stand and probably has with so many different women that you now have one or more of the millions of diseases he is carrying around. My advice, get checked for STD's and keep the legs closed; you should know what he wants before giving him what he wants, that means getting to know him over time.
2008-01-01 02:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jack of all trades 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna be rude to you. Yes, he's in it for the bootie. I mean, out of curiousity, did the first encounter occur on a weekend? And if so, isn;t it rather convenient that he is asking you over (8 days later) probably because he will not have work the next day or whatever...when he will have overnight time? And I mean, keep in mind, he's not asking you out on a date but to his place, for some "fun." Some men, though not all, like to have a girl in their back pocket for sex. Don;t be a back-pocket girl.
2007-12-30 15:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by redhd76 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! He is so transparent. He had sex with you, then waited till he felt like having sex with you again and invited you to his apartment, PLEASE!!!!! IF he gave a rat's *** about you he would have asked you to do something besides come to his apartment. This is why you should NOT sleep with someone you just met. He has you in correctly labeled as easy sex, no relationship demands. As soon as you ask for more or refuse sex ---poof--- he is gone.
28 and you are 19 --- total ego play for him, he is high fiving everyone of the boys work and the local pub where he hangs out.
2007-12-30 15:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by George 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Honey you have a lot to learn..In the grown up world this is called a booty call. Nothing more. I wouldn't see him at his apartment, unless you are okay with just having sex. It won't turn into anything more, otherwise he would have contacted you sooner. He'll tell you that, "he's into you, he thinks your great, blah blah blah, but in the end you'll just be a place for him to drop his load.
2007-12-30 15:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be straight with him. Ask him why 8 days and no call. Ask him if he's just calling for booty. Tell him you can hang but you will be going home and not having sex or spending the night. You could tell him that because you like him, you want to slow things done. Just be straight.
2007-12-30 16:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he obviously thinks you are easy. You gave it up the first night you met him, so now when he has nothing else going on (that's why he waited 8 days) he will call you expecting you to roll over for him again--and will remain the same UNLESS you demand more and JUST SAY NO.
2007-12-30 16:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer you are looking for is YES - and the fact that he waited 8 days means that all his other one night stands are probably busy on nye!!!! surely you didn't believe his line about how special you are and how much you too hit it off...oh wait yes you did because you went home with him on the first night and slept with him.
2007-12-30 16:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, if he really wanted a relationship out of this or just date you he would have contacted you a long time ago.
I think he just wants to be bed buddies.
2007-12-30 18:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stay away from him. You are too young to let some creep hurt you this way and possibly damage you toward men in the future.
2007-12-30 15:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Erin 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
DUH!
If he really liked you for your personality, he would have talked with you on the first night. Not have sex.
I'm surprised he waited so long to call you. I would have called you the next day to have sex again.
Trust me... he doesn't like you for who you ARE.
2007-12-30 15:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Vitiran 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋