i guess i have a way with ppl. im not very popular or social, im the quite type, who lvoes to write. i keep many things to myself...
i noticed recently that ppl tend to open up towards me and tell me all these personal details when i only considered them a distant friend. ppl tend to open up towards me and i have no clue how i get them to do that. i always end up building close personal friendships without trying to.
im wondering if some1 can shed light on this if you know some1 who you notice many ppl feel open towards. why are ppl so open towards me? (sometimes i regret knowing their personal issues, other times its nice)...
2007-12-30 15:13:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
both girls and guys. guys are more open to tell me, with girls if i ask i get an answer, no fuss. so im guessing the girl trusts me too...
2007-12-30 15:21:25 · update #1
Is it just with girls or w/ guys too. the guys MIGHT (I'm not sure but it is possible) really like you and want to get a relationship out of the deal, but it depends on the guy.
2007-12-30 15:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by HT-5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. You are quiet and not social. You aren't popular. So, you wont tell their secrets since you dont have that many friends. People tend to trust people they dont hear much about. They figure if you can keep your secrets quiet, you can keep theirs quiet too.
Maybe you are a good listener. Maybe you are just a good person and people trust your advice. Being trustworthy isn't a bad quality to have.
2007-12-30 15:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Meghan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are quiet, people think you will not tell anyone else about what they told you.
Also if you are not very socialable you are very easy to talk to and people arent scared to talk to you so whenever someone needs someone else to talk about something important they can come to you
2007-12-30 15:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by djdj1097 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋