why do men want to be friends with girls and then play mind games with them? like all of sudden with no warning stop talking to them and erase all communications with them! Just wondering what goes on in a guys head when he does this? Also apart of me wants revenge i know its wrong and childish but, i feel hurt about my friend just dumping me like this! what should i do? we go back to school in a few weeks and i am afraid i will run into him we always seem to!
2007-12-30 14:49:42 · 10 answers · asked by S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
idk about age because we are both in college! he is in his 20's!
2007-12-30 14:58:08 · update #1
That's the way I am... I do it because I just hate talking to people.
He probably got tired of you talking to him and so he just stopped it all at once. Do you call a lot (according to his judgment, not yours) and do you talk a lot (according to him).
That's the 2 main reasons I stop talking to people. And calling me once a week pisses me off because I hate talking to people, like I said above. E-mail is great though.
2007-12-30 14:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i agree women and men are not the same....... if ur afraid of running into the guy than u should stay away from him or do something to give him a hint about wat u feel........ well yea sometimes male freinds suck! but there always good for sumthin rite? guy freinds can't do stuff that girls can do u know? thats how were all different....... so about ur revenge thing i rly can't help u cuz i rly don't understand....sryy.... but good luck!
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2007-12-30 23:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by kandieskrazy98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some men just get side track and they sort of forget. If you are good to them and you pay attention to them (I'm not saying that you aren't) then they won't forget you. I was dumb and this happened to me. I really liked this girl but I was dumb and I lost her. Just spend as much time with him as possible to keep the relationship.
2007-12-30 22:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be many things did you consider that maybe one of his parents was checking out his computer and he thought it would give them the wrong idea about your friendship? It may not be that he was trying to hurt but was trying to protect you.
2007-12-30 22:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by James E Lewis AKA choteau 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy friends are amazing, but irritating as heck. Just ignore him if you see him in school. I'm sorry he isn't a great friend... you'll find better.
2007-12-30 23:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he likes you i know i was a male friend to and thats the way we tell you that we would like to get to know you and be your boyfriend i know it sucks but dont worry and feel bad he is just trying to find his perfect match
2007-12-30 22:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nathan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those guys are assholes.
But, in general, guys are better friends. there is less drama then with girl friends.
2007-12-30 22:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing all men are not same as all girls are not same.i will love my gf forever.find an trust worthy bf.
2007-12-30 22:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please it must be a maturity thing. I am 47 and I am a great friend to women !
2007-12-30 22:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he wanted to have sex .
2007-12-30 22:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋