2007-12-30 14:18:37 · 6 answers · asked by prfcthottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when your mature enough to know that children take alot of energy, and when u marry its all in your choice and how mature u both are. its usually best to wait until your older and finish school, have a good job, a home, and can handle children, live your life first do all the things u wanted to do because once children come u won't have the money anymore, children take alot of time and money. first u have to have the right mate, who accepts responsibility, is loyal, and treats u with love and respect.
2007-12-30 14:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet someone you want to have children with and the two of you are emotionally and financially stable to have kids. Many people make the huge mistake of having kids first then wondering where the money will come from to raise them. Also.....some people make the mistake of marrying just for the sake of getting married. Marriage and kids aren't for everyone. It's not a law that it has to be done.
2007-12-30 22:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by lacrosselover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twenty somthing after you both have finished school and at least he has a very secure job with health insurance ! Also both of you need to be truely in love !
2007-12-30 22:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me? Never. I'm getting married next year, but I will not 'settle down' in that I'll be buying a house and getting knocked up. No, I'll be keeping my contraceptives and emergency abortion fund thank you.
2007-12-30 22:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whenever you are financially and emotionally ready.
2007-12-30 22:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your heart & your head both agree that it's time
2007-12-30 22:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by Amy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋