Alright, I've known this girl since we were in diapers, literally. Fast-foward a bit and now we're both freshies in college. We've never celebrated a New Year's together, believe it or not, but this year is a bit different. I got invited to go out on a friend's Yacht for a cocktail-type party. I don't know anyone there and most of the people are going to be a lot older than my Best friend and I so we'll be hanging together the whole night. Now I was just wondering if it'll be a bad move to give her a kiss at the stroke of midnight. We've never had much of a physical relationship, but lately that's stepped up a bit. We've started hugging... a lot, she likes to rest her head on my shoulder and innocent things of that general nature. I suppose giving her a peck on the cheek would be a safe move, but I'd probably regret going with the safe bet, as I like to live dangerously. Anyway, just searching for some opinions... so give me your best!
2007-12-30 14:09:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say go in for the peck on the cheek... see what her reaction is... then go from there... that way you are matching her innocent moves and responding in kind. who knows... by 12:01 you may see each other in a totally different light....
2007-12-30 14:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by maritimegypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just do it! But, I would recommend looking her in the eyes and giving her a nice soft kiss on the lips, no tongue... especially since you haven't reached the "physical" part of the relationship. I would make sure it is a nice, sweat innocent kiss and then play it from there!
If the moment and the night do not seem to be a good time to make this move, then for sure a kiss on the cheek.
2007-12-30 22:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by TLSL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT. Just put your arms around her and kiss her, on the lips. If she has been snuggling on you. she has been sending signals that you are not receiving. Midnight will be the perfect time to make a move. I was hanging out with my best friend, but I fell in love with her. One night when we were having a great time, laughing, etc. I just pulled her in and kissed her. She really kissed me back. We then both confessed that we had fallen in love with the other. We have been married 41 yrs. Have a Happy New :Year!!! lol
2007-12-30 22:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely kiss her! Even if she says it was inappropriate, or anything of the sort, just say that you've got feelings for her (which I'm guessing you do, based on your question). If she doesn't want to be in a relationship or doesn't feel the same way, tell her that you respect her decisions, and that you'll back off. That way it won't be awkward, and you can go back to being friends if it doesn't work out.
2007-12-30 22:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by zlatham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a bit of a bold move really, if you are going to do that, then make sure she will not get mad at you and things like that
good luck, sounds good if the 2 of you have a good relationship
2007-12-30 22:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by perla0776 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see how the night turns out to make your decision...
If you guys are having a great night and she seems to like you and show a lot of affection..then go for it...
2007-12-30 22:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Vans00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try kissing her on the cheek, then it will escalade into more if she really does like you. Those innocent gestures means she likes you though. Good luck!
2007-12-30 22:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Q and A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say to watch her reactions to the things you say and the way she responds to them. and you should know which way the evening is headed. weather you will git that kiss or just a hand shake. speak wisely and you just might git more than that kiss. HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-30 22:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by The Fresh One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude grow some balls and just do it i was in the same sort of situation a while back and went for it and this have been great since
good luck
2007-12-30 22:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by tom f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww your practicly brother and sister if you've known each other since u were in diapers sick man dont do it!!! you'll have inbred children!!!
2007-12-30 22:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋