Ok these girls at school think it's cool 2 cut themselves. my best friend is starting to cut herself and I have tried everything 2 get her 2 stop. How do u convince somebody 2 stop?
2007-12-30 13:17:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well my friend use to do that until she passed away. She hit a vein in her wrist her parents found her in the restroom lying there bleeding. You need to let someone know.
2007-12-30 13:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are several reasons: it is a fad thing, go along with the group to fit in or be accepted; the more serious is an emotional issue.
they have so much pain inside they do this as a way to obtain relief, they turn on themselves. They need professional help right away.
2007-12-30 21:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by rosebud 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seek help, that is the only way...
You can try to help her, but when you are not around and she is with them well then sure enough it is soon to happen...
People hate to tell people about a friends problem because they are afraid of what will happen to thier friendship...
In the long run she will see you as a closer friend that wanted to try to help her. Not be like those other chicks and cut themselves because they are lacking something in thier lives.
She needs help, don't let it be too late.
laterz...
2007-12-30 21:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by William W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if shes doin it just cuz she thinks its cool u need to tell her shes a freakin loser and 2 get over herself. if shes doin it cause shes trying to deal with her problems or shes depressed or soethin try to help her. tell her theres better ways 2 deal w/stuff. try to be there for her. if it gets that serious u might wanna consider tellin someone. but most likely if shes telling ppl she does it its just for attention. serious cutters dont go around showing it off. usually they hide it
2007-12-30 21:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by farfromokay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all they have issues with family and they try to find ways to get out stress and all sort by cutting theirselves but they think its ok but i dont i think its stupid and who will want to get with or be friends who cut them selves. thats why u see emos with emos and goths with goths. because they act their own ways and people dont like it
2007-12-30 21:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Xavier R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's psychological and there are obvious deeper issues that she's trying to deal with. try to talk with her about it and just keep an eye on her. if it gets worse you'll need to talk to her parents.
2007-12-30 21:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by finbear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds cheesy, but send her to the school counselor. At first she might be mad, but you need to do it before she does something REALLY dangerous. She will thank you in the end. :)
2007-12-30 21:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say "(friends name) i wish you didnt cut yourself bad things can happen if you do and i miss my friend".And then walk away...
2007-12-30 21:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who cut have real deep issues, it is not something that is just for fun
2007-12-30 21:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police. Seriously.
2007-12-30 21:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by beardo73 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋