When you get called Sir, does that mean that you look old?

Question

I'm only 26, and I get called sir virtually everywhere I go. Mall stores, restaurants, out and about. And just not too long ago, well seveal years ago but still, I graduated college and never got called that, I used to get carded.

Does this mean that I look old, or what not. Many people my age, Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, even guys, don't seem like "sir" or "maams" or moms or dads yet, so if you get called that, is it just a suggestion of politness, courtesy, or even store/restaurant policy, or, is your time up and it's time to head for the plastic surgeon's office? lol

I'm just not ready to be "old" yet. I feel like in your 20s you should still be hip and fun.

Asthon Kutcher is my age perhaps a bit older, and I doubt it's appropriate to call HIM sir, unless of course he really looks rich and done up and handsome/formal.

Maybe it's just a respect thing?

I don't know, but I'm uncomfortable with it.

Then again, tecnically, 26 is a bit over the hill, for trying to look young and hip.

:sigh:

Aging is so depressing.

Answer 1

Of course not. All that means is that people are showing you common courtesy and respect. This is also a sign of maturity. Really think about A. Kutcher. He is a man on the outside and a little kid on the inside. He is just a person who loves to have fun and gets paid for doing it. Don't feel uncomfortable. When you start growing longer and grayer mustaches and beards and hit your late 30's that will be the time when you are being called sir for your age.♥

Answer 2

My experience has been that if a stranger calls your Sir it's a a sign of respect but if your mother or your boss calls you Sir it means you're in trouble - no matter what age you're at (I'm 57). Those are probably the only two exceptions that should ever make you uncomfortable with the word.

Answer 3

I feel ya. I'm kinda there too. I know it feels wierd and makes you feel old, but on the other hand it is more a respect thing, so take it as a compliment.

Answer 4

If you no longer dress like a kid, people tend to do that. You most likely do not look old, you just dress more professionally and carry yourself with more confidence.

Answer 5

I agree that its a respect thing, when you get offered senior citizen discounts without being carded, then your old.

Answer 6

It is a respect thing, Be happy that you get called that.
Respect isn't what it used to be....

Answer 7

its just to be polite because they don't know your name or last name so that is just one way to get your attention or whatever.