I am seeing a counselor for the first time tomorrow, but have been doing some reading on my own. I'm afraid that I have a co-dependency problem based on my reading. I wonder though, how one draws the line between being truly co-dependent and wanting to protect those you love. For instance, I am in a situation right now where a lot of people are going to be affected. I want to protect them all, but is that becasuse I'm co-dependent or just a normal instinct to protect those I love? I'm going to mention this to the counselor tomorrow, I just wanted some other opinions as well. No smart-*** answers either, please.
2007-12-30
12:52:38
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KitKat
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JMH, I thank you for your honesty. I'm not putting 100% faith in the answers I get here, I just thougth I'd throw the question out there.
I want to control things, but not to the point that I'm telling people not to leave the house or anything like that. I want to know exactly what is going on at all times so that if something doesn't go my way, I can fix it. I always find myself surrounded by people with "issues" and I do my best to "fix" them.
I know it will take several sessions before my counselor can put a finger on this, and I am looking forward to getting rid of these feelings.
2007-12-30
13:48:14 ·
update #1