I am beyond socially awkward, I can't integrate myself well in society, I have low self-esteem, I don't have many friends, I go to a high ranked college but can't seem to apply what I learn to life, I have very little motivation, I have a lack of remorse... how the hell do I change?
2007-12-30 12:21:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No, it sounds like you are depressed and you are an introvert. Therapy could help you.
2007-12-30 12:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not have the right word, but what you describe does require professional evaluation, and it is good you have recognized you have some problems.
Most college campus have good counseling program. Take the next step, make an appointment as soon as possible.
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2007-12-30 12:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Gatsby216 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you very well maybe a psychopath but that dosen't doom you to a life of charlie manson like murdering sprees
1 out of every 100 people are psycopaths but they don't go out and murder people
what you need to do is cherrish the friends you have quality over quantity
and secondly i bet your just not putting your self out there enough and displaying your talents let other people see the you that your friends see
if you feel that you really want to change i would suggest you see a psycologist to help you with your issues in a more comfortable atmosphere
msg me if you have any questions pls
2007-12-30 12:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are a psycho, I think that social situations are often hardest on very intelligent people. It all boils down to finding a way to relate to people and the world around you. IM me sometime if you just want to talk to someone. YIM j_veritas
2007-12-30 12:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a pet the extra love will make you feel better about life. or you could go on an amazing vacation by yourself and explore and give yourself time to think. Good Luck!
2007-12-30 12:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by lexlex388 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well at first its not going to be easy at all! but you can do it! if you have low self-esteem about your looks, maybe work out, get new hair cut, new clothes. cant you meet people people like joining some clubs and stuff?
i say just get out their and start talking to people. it will get easier.
2007-12-30 12:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First do you know what it is you expect from yourself? Is your goal right now to find the good in you. lack of motivation,remorse,low self esteem. only secures your social awkwardness and lack to integrate with society. How can anyone be friends with you if your not a friend to yourself. It's not the college its you(sweetie) Find out what stops you from being motivated Prayer,Counsel,Meditation and ask yourself whenever your low self-esteem arises: Why? Then try to change that situation. Hope I've Helped. Don't worry you'll be alright. And NO you're not a psychopath! Blessed 2008
2007-12-30 21:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Patti Wray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know................find a purpose in life,,,,,,,,,,it will help you...........
2007-12-30 12:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by richard t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋