I hate to be a male cheuvenist, but I don't want a female doctor examining me because I don't feel comfortable.
What do I do if a female doctor - in her 40's - kinda attractive (if you like older women) is examining me and I get an erection?
This happened and I was so embarrased I didn't know what to do.
She told me to turn my head and cough while holding my testes and I got a RAGING HARD ON for no reason. I did think she was attractive but all the sudden it was like all the blood in my body went straight to the head - READY FOR ACTION.
advice?
2007-12-30 11:18:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I don't think it's chauvanistic (sp?) to be uncomfortable in that situation. I'd be incredibly embarassed if i were you. Just ask for another doctor.
2007-12-30 11:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by xzorion54 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh god,
"She told me to turn my head and cough while holding my testes and I got a RAGING HARD ON for no reason. I did think she was attractive but all the sudden it was like all the blood in my body went straight to the head - READY FOR ACTION."
That doesn't sound to good.. try masturbating just before you go to the doctors.
2007-12-30 11:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this does happen to males. We just ignore it. It can be an involuntary response to stimuli that you can't control and it does not make you perverted. I do suggest that if you are uncomfortable then you should switch to a male doctor. I would be concerned that you would be too embarressed to open with this female doc if you had specific medical questions. Trust me its okay, I go to a female Gyn and I prefer it. It is all about preference and comfort.
2007-12-30 11:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by nurse ratchet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude she is a doctor she expects that some dudes will react like you did it is no big deal for her she is a professional and looks at your unit as a doctor nothing else. Remember to put on clean underware and dont think about it. Actually aplogize make fun of the woodie " sorry about that "
curtdude
2007-12-30 11:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, it's better that you got a hard-on with a female doc than a male doc. It happened, get over it. I'm sure that you weren't the first male to react. As long as you didn't try to use it you did nothing wrong and neither did she.
2007-12-30 14:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Aryeh M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, yours is not the first erection she has ever seen! Just be glad it was not a MALE doctor and the same thing happened!
Get over it and get on with your life!
She has!
2007-12-30 11:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by bender_xr217 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow man poor of you really i mean i understand if i would of gotten and erection i would of felt really embarassed to but its almost like the more u try to avoid it, it still happens hmmm although i wouldnt know what to tell u. try to think about something gross a fat guy lol give a try damn
2007-12-30 11:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you go to the doc request a male if it bother's you.
My brother has a female Doc and she wanted to check his prostate inserting finger into the rectum. He wasn't too thrilled about it. Then she said my fingers are smaller than a male doc so he let her do it.
2007-12-30 11:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Tigger 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a doctor, she understands. But if you feel that uncomfortable having a female doctor, then ask her to refer you to male. She won't be insulted.
2007-12-30 12:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Seattle_Slacker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry, i dont' like dudes touchin my areas, i'd rather have a chick do the exam. What do you have to be embarred about, you're a dude, you have dude parts, you have what you have, just be who you are and act like yourself. If the doctor is a good doctor, then there should be nothing sexual about your visit.
2007-12-30 13:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋