Question about certain girls...?

Question

Why is it that even girls who i have had problems with and know that i
am a problemed person and very mentally unstable have even sometimes took time out to drop their guard and took time out to care or be helpful?

Answer 1

Ohmigord - another reincarnation of the dreaded "Twenty Five" - Brian, Greg etc right back to the OLD trey and marvin of FOUR MONTHS AGO - AND STILL ASKING THE SAME QUESTIONS CONTINUOUSLY.
When will it stop - and when will sensible people realise what's going on under their noses when they think they're answering 'sensible' questions ++!!!++!!!++

Answer 2

You are saying you are mentally unstable. Maybe this just comes across to others as 'you' lacking confidence. Females being nurturing for reproduction sense you are weak,vulnerable...so they mother you. This is just instinct for women! You are not specific about what problems you had with these girls...clash in personalities, whatever! Our intuition as females is good, and yes we can sense you are weak, and may or may not have issues!! Nobody can really define what is unstable! that is not up for us to decide. However, If you know your self you have problems (we know ourself best) then you are extra sensitive to the way people are treating you. get some counselling, it will route out your frustrations.

Answer 3

First off, I would like to apologize for the rude, insensitive, dumb, empty, uncalled for answers you've gotten. Second... Females are generally caretakers, which means we care for people, all sorts of people. We try to help them in any way we can, we try to nurture them so they have a better understanding of life, and the world around them, and so they can live better lives. We do things like this, mainly because we feel sorry for the person I think. Most people take that as an insult, someone feeling sorry for them. But in reality, it's not. It means someone cares about you because you are another living creature. Regardless of Race, gender, background, etc. take this as a compliment, and try to return the favor by letting them help you and taking their words of wisdom, and their teachings to heart.

Luck.

Answer 4

Maybe because she respects you and cares for you. You ever hear the expression two birds of a feather flock together. Maybe you met your soul mate., or a good friend. I wouldn't question her motives. I would love to have someone I could trust to let my guard down. To tell my inner thoughts to. Someone who wouldn't judge me or use it against me. You would be a fool to let her get away.

Answer 5

There are lots of really giving people out there. Consider yourself lucky to have been helped by some of them. And since you know how good it feels, maybe you can return the favor when you come across someone in need.

Answer 6

Maybe they can see underneath that you are really a nice person with problems. We all want to be loved I believe. Just be who you are and do not hurt anyone. Be honest with yourself and others.

Answer 7

cos we are not all nasty horrible people. We like to think that we have helped people and i feel that thereis no better feeling in the world than knowing you have made a differance (the bigger the better) and i do not ask for things in return only a thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

It is in some peoples nature to be that way. I would say you are lucky to have met these girls and would class them as friends to you.

Answer 9

Trey W: You must learn to write clearly and consisely.

The nature of your question is very difficult to comprehend. Try to work on reading and re-reading your question after you write it, to see if it, too, makes sense to you.

Good luck.

Answer 10

It's just their motherly instincts coming through.