ok..
so i'm like 14
a growing girl right?
i know i'm young and everything but...
i think i'm starting to like get...
sexual urges to you know..
"do it"
What do i do??
EW i am not going to finger myself!
thats disgusting.
I almost did it with my brothers best friend..
he likes me and i like him.
I didnt because i knew i was getting
myself into deep shiit!
There was no way i was going to do it.
What if i got pregenant!?
I freaked out.
What do i do?
i know i dont need to have sex at my age.
I am so confused..
Help!
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2007-12-30 10:37:26 · 21 answers · asked by lillers94 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i know i shouldnt be doing it.
i havent
i dont want to
but i get like
"urges' i guess.
2007-12-30 10:45:09 · update #1
Girl ... go touch yourself, if your so immature to think touching your OWN body is disgusting then wtf are you doing goin after someone elses body??
I'm sure your sick and tired of hearing the risks PREGNANCY, STDS!?!
But seriously you need to save the first time till your with somone specail ... no I'm not some freak saying wait till your married or anything but at least wait until you have a deep, trusted boyfriend.
Someone who is not only your boyfriend but your BESTFRIEND...
Girl believe me, if you do this you'll look back when your 32 on your childsd 18th birthday and think HOW much better it would be if you waited!
Even if you use a condom/pill there is always a risk!
Why would you want to give away something as speacil as your virginity when you've only had it for 14 short years?!?
I'm 14 and by God do I have as you call them 'Sexual Urges' ... I'd never admit it to anyone I know but yeah I masturbate .. Every Night... Theres absolutley nothing wrong with it... its actually GOOD for you!
Visit this site mymasturbation.... I admit some of it is SICK but there are parts of it which I've tried out and it soes for sure sort out you 'Urges!'
Anyways girl... DON'T DO THIS WAIT TILL YOUR AT LEAST 19 AND WITH A BOY FOR AT LEAST 8 MONTHS!!!
Happy New Year!
2007-12-30 10:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
I'm 28 but I remember that age like it was yesterday, plus I'm around two 14 year olds almost daily. I remember when I turned 23 thinking the lord has been with me all these years for me to not have gotten pregnant until now. From my experience your more interesting to guys when you don't give it up. The two 14 year olds I know don't have any want for it but have lots of guy friends, kissing should be the furthest you go at this point. Please take your time and you sound like a smart girl that you know that a baby won't only ruin your life so young but stop you from having all that fun in high school or college, or even hanging with anyone just about.
2007-12-30 18:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tricia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't have sex. Sex can make you pregnant, and give you a really bad reputation. I'm 17 and a virgin, I'm not telling you to wait until your married or anything, but wait until your more mature and until guys your age are more mature. Guys don't really mature until they're about 20. So if you have really strong "urges" masturbate. I know it sounds gross but it's better than sex. Or just get involved in something non-sexual when these urges hit and get your mind off of it. Remember to be strong and stick up for what you believe in, don't follow the crowd it's not worth it.
2007-12-30 18:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called "Hormones" hun and its completely normal to get sexual urges sometimes because you're at the stage where your hormones are going crazy.The urges are normal the tough part is learning to control them.Whenever the urge arises just try to remember all the bad things that can occur by having under-aged sex.I'm glad that you were smart enough not to do it with your brother's best friend.Keep it up and don't let anyone talk you into having sex.
2007-12-30 20:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Euphoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you KNOW you dont need to have sex at your age, then why consider it. If you have sex and get pregnant, that will be the end of your life. Hope this helps. You already know its not a good thing right now so dont act on the urges, thats called maturity.
2007-12-30 18:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by fishman624 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Fingering yourself is not disgusting...
It's called masturbation and there are no risks involved whatsoever. It's completely normal to feel urges but they go away.
Don't be pressured into sex. I'm not saying you have to wait for marriage, but at least wait for someone you love, if you're not comfortable with a one night stand. [which I don't recommend]
2007-12-30 23:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by iced.moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completly normal to feel those urges. Many people have them but that doesnt mean to act upon them. Your still young so dont do anything you would later regret, just know that your not alone, and that is perfectlu normal. If you do end up having sex may i recommnd condoms and birth control. You could complain that your period is to heavy and end up getting it.
2007-12-30 20:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I suggest you do indeed finger yourself for the experience alone. You will find it very pleasurable and without all the headache of personal relationships. Even better get a dildo. It will feel like the real thing but its superior to and outperforms even the best of them silly adolescent boys out there.
2007-12-30 18:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by wiremu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well every teenager gets those urges.I lost mines when I was 14 and I got pregnant but i'm happy i had my babies cuz I had twins and that i married their father and had 3 more with him.But u can wait they r nuthin but urges.But can't no body stop u gon do u and that's all that matters but it's your decision so just accepts what ever happens.
2007-12-31 00:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by cutie313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said that you don't want to touch yourself (mastu*bate), but I tell you that it is a great relief. I feel that same about sex, to much risk and not a lot of rewards. So I ...and I don't have the urge to do it anymore...for a while at least.
2007-12-30 18:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋