Children who grow up to find someone special, who get married and have kids, who grow up to meet someone special, who gets married who has kids........ and so on
It seems to me that many people - especially girls, make it their life plan to find a perfect man and then, to them, their life is complete.........
2007-12-30 09:58:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
That depends on the type of girls you have met. My life plan is to develop myself and try out new things. I do not want to bring children to this world, unless I find the right partner to do it with.
People are very different . If you are looking for a partner, try to understand their life ambitious / goals before you settle down with the person (either by marrying / living together / meeting regularly). It is not like marriage is the right life plan for everyone
2007-12-30 10:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it life? Well, that depends on what you want from life. I don't think its wrong for people to grow up with the aim to be happy, and with that 'special someone'. Indeed, I myself would much rather grow old with that someone special, and be happy; rather than be old and lonely - but rich.
It really depends what you yourself want from life. I don't think you can say any aim in life is wrong, and describing life as simply 'growing up and getting married' is somewhat...sparse. Life is made up of the series of moments and events that are important to the people in such moments. The moments you always remember. For a girl that you have suggested, the moments would be things like her first boyfriend, her first kiss, her wedding day and so on. For someone else the standout moments would be getting the best grades in school, getting a good degree, and getting a high-flying job.
Is either a bad thing? I don't think so. In fact, I myself am one of those girls you're talking about, with my special someone already, but that doesn't mean my life is over by any means. I have so many moments to look forward to =)
2007-12-30 10:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sukisumi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EXCUSE ME?! I know it's just a casual observation on your part, but all throughout my life, I've never met a woman or girl who was content just to marry the perfect man. On the outside, of course you're going to say that you're happy, if you're married with children, etc. But no one really wants just that. I've seen girls grow up, wanting to be authors, scientists-- and becoming housewives and saying they are perfectly happy to people they don't know. Women are better at hiding their true feelings and sacrificing for their families.
2007-12-30 10:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Caroline 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats so true, most people i know just talk about the opposite sex all day and how they fancy him/her blah blah all that usual **** but i guess thats what you get when your brought up in corrupt society, wich is influenced so much by the media
thank god i was brought up to be grateful of life and believing in god, i have things to accomplish and dreams to follow and i believe there are more things important in this life than who im going out with next?
2007-12-30 10:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by smokey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the overall picture but of course there are alot of small details that make life challenging and interesting.
2007-12-30 14:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by gannoway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While it seems like a great idea, obviously that's not what life is about. At least not to me.
2007-12-30 10:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Hummingbird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say "life plan", but it is my dream to find a my soul mate.
2007-12-30 10:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women do this, and have a career as well you know.
2007-12-30 10:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by louise d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋