Our kids are in a play group together. My son really likes going.
2007-12-30 09:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Golf Chick 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not flirting with him. I treat everyone the same.
2007-12-30 09:55:39 · update #1
Ok This same thing has happened to a person i know it all started off by the guy texting her and asking her to call him this went on for about a month but he contunued texting and they were all friends she enoyed the attention from him so she gave in to his web and called him then next thing you know they have a fling going on they kiss have intercourse. She says she feels guilty and loves her husband but she continues to do it next thing u know they are telling each other they love one another. Ive told her already that it is not right but she says she can't stop it.
2007-12-30 11:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by yolanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should STOP allowing him to hit on you. Sure it feels good. Sure it makes you feel like a girl again. Sure it makes you feel pretty. But, RUN!!!! Those kinds of things ALWAYS leads to an affair. During an affair, you have to lie to the person you promised to honor. You have to sneak around. You are taking time away from your kids and your husband, so YES, you are cheating on your children too. And it may feel good for a little while, but then it comes to an end and you are left feeling guilty and feeling ashamed. You don't want to JUST BE FRIENDS with this guy, so don't try to pull that over on us. We don't buy it, and neither will your husband. I hope you will be wise about this, and STOP talking with this man. He is a louse no matter how cute you may think he is. He has obviously cheated on his wife before, and you will just be another conquest for him. I know you will do what you want, but remember you have been warned. Think about it. You know women who have had affairs, and you know how sorry they ended up. Do YOU want to be that miserable? Then go ahead. You will be back on here one day asking us how to go on with your life when you have been dumped by a lover, and your husband found out and doesn't trust you anymore.
2007-12-30 18:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not possible to just be friends with this guy. This guy is not looking for a friend it seems.
Protect yourself and your marriage and avoid him at all costs. It is when we let our guard down that things happen.
2007-12-30 18:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be careful if I were you. Some people are just crazy out there, and use their kids as excuses to pick up woman. It's very sad but true.
2007-12-30 18:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by a_timeless.mercy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if he's hitting on you, that attraction will probably always be there. Plus he doesn't seem to care too much about other peoples feelings since he is technically cheating on his wife by hitting on you.
2007-12-30 17:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Momma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how far the flirtation has gone. Once you cross the line (different for different people) you cant go back. Be smart, but enjoy the attention.
2007-12-30 18:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jelise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not actual friends, no. Playgroup attendees who see each other ONLY in the presence of others and never even alone in a room-- sure.
2007-12-30 19:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you need to stay away from him. Stop flirting. Your marriage will be ruined. If you love your husband you will stop
2007-12-30 17:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come off it !!! You are encouraging and enjoying this situation. Leave the man alone. He is married.
2007-12-30 18:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for the ego....but no future in it. Avoid him.
2007-12-30 19:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋