Weird Relationship?

Question

I have this relative whom I stay far away from. He is intellegent, witty, overwhelming and narcissistic. There is no time that he is in my presence that he isn't bragging about his Master's Degree. It is quite stifling to bear. There is this situation that I can't quite understand. This relative hangs out with his friend at numerous events, especially when the man is dating. He's always hanging out around the man's house and watches wrestling matches. It's quite irritating, like he has some type of obsession. What makes matters worse, is that his friend met this lady over the Internet. Now he's dating her and the relative is around them like a chaperone (a real shadow), over their relationship. I spoke to the relative about this and he persists in his bold attitude that they are ALL friends. I spoke to his friend about this. Guess What? He is whimsical about it all. The friend mentions that he is just friends with the lady. The lady purchases gifts and he accepts. What's missing here?

Answer 1

The fact that the relative is always bragging about his masters degree shows some insecurity issues somewhere. There's nothing wrong with being proud of his accomplishments, but when it gets to the point where he is constantly bragging, especially in an effort to make himself look better than someone else, there is a bit of a compromised self-esteem issue.

As for the relative always hanging out with the friend and his girlfriend, that one's kinda tricky. Maybe he has a thing for the guy friend, or maybe a thing for the girlfriend. They may even have a threesome or some other arrangment going on. But it almost sounds like the relative either has the hots for the guy friend or is just an extremely possesive friend.

Answer 2

Yeah what they said

Answer 3

i agree with baby girl idk what ur exactly asking it seems like ur mostly rambling a bit your question isnt clear enough

Answer 4

IDK WHAT YOU ASKING