I never know how to react to affection yet i always hunger for a fight...I have never kissed and wonder if i want to...I just want to cause pain...I know this is not normal...but what is it...??
2007-12-30 09:28:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First of all, violence is not an instinct. It is a socially unacceptable form of behavior, at least in this part of the world.
Neither is love, which is a type of emotion (some people claim that it a form of temporary insanity). In any case, these feelings must be dealt with. Get some counseling, like now. If you're in school, see the school shrink; it will be confidential. If you ignore these symptoms nothing good will come of it, and your picture will end up on the front page of your hometown newspaper.
2007-12-30 17:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by ursaitaliano70 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one taught you this and some place some where someone accepted you for this and so you learned it, now you have to break this and relearn a new thing that is not always the easiest thing to do, but I think you are showing a willingness to do it, you were taught that to be tuff you had to fight and to be okay you had to be tuff and now you know that isn't so, only you can change no one else can change you and neither can any drug or so called treatment! maybe make you worse is all, really!
2007-12-30 17:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem although i have stopped going out and randomly hitting people.I am currently seeing a very good shrink.Having somebody you can trust and talk to, without having to hit them is a huge relief , you should try it sometime.
2007-12-31 04:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Greyson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a weird way that can be normal maybe it had to do with something from your childhood and you're reacting to it but think about why you want to do the things you do.
2007-12-30 17:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by :) 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is probably that you grew up in a family where violence was common, but affection was not.
I think you can be happier than you are if you find someone to talk to about this.
2007-12-30 17:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it sounds like you just have a short fuse and if its that bad see a psychiatrist and after that try to get a girlfriend/boyfriend and take it from there
2007-12-30 17:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Steff 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to your GP asap.
2007-12-30 17:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by ummsulaima 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you had a bad upbringing babe? go get some counselling
2007-12-30 17:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i sometimes feel like that....where do you live?, wana fight??
2007-12-30 17:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋