I live in Thailand and I just met the man of my dreams, he is British and he is 45 years old, 22 years older than me, he comes to Thailand for business all the time, he met me at bar and says he loves me, he comes often now just to visit me, we went to tourist site, he had meeting in Hong Kong and brings me there all the time with him to stay with him for few days, we have so much fun, but the problem is he says he is married but going to get divorced soon. He wants me to come to England and marry him. He is very rich and very loving, he says he loves a lot and wants to marry me what do i do?
2007-12-30 08:32:11 · 35 answers · asked by Thai 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You are his toy, sweety! He needs someone to keep him company while he is away from HOME and you are it! You are very young & can be excused for trusting him! He should be ashamed of himself* Don't go to England until he is single and has the right to ask you to marry him!
2007-12-30 11:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man is leading you on. In order to get what he wants from you. You would be crazy to believe him. He probably has a few children. You will be the other woman he visits for fun, while on his business trips. A little thing on the side, that he thinks his wife will never find out about.
2007-12-30 08:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone gets a divorce he officially has to wait a year or a certain period of time before he can remarry.... not sure for how long though. I think you should forget him, your basically seeing a man that is married. COME ON!!! abit of common sense is all that is required x
If he lied about getting divorced and you marry him... then your marriage can't be classified as official and then he will DEFINITELY get arrested for polygamy (UK laws) xx
2007-12-30 08:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Varisha 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you have more chance of marrying (elton john) you are a plaything to occupy his time in thailand? you say he says he loves you,he said the same to his wife and probably others get a grip its a fantasy it aint going to happen.and the thing you love about him most is the fact he is rich, you deserve each other he is obviously a sexual deviant after someone half his age (whilst still married) and you for putting money before love.
2007-12-30 08:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by barry567 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you why didn't he wait till he was unmarried? If he really loves you why hasn't he divorced yet? I think you should ask when and what date.Why put your love life on hold because he hasn't decided when to divorce.Also did you ever think when he goes back home to his wife,maybe he has sex with her.If he is lieing to his wife, how can you build a life together with a lier.Also what happens if you marry this man and he does this with you???? Can you really build a loving relationship with a lier and cheater??? I really don't think so.But best of luck to you.
2007-12-30 08:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by faithfulangelhun 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
He's married, end of story. Don't fall for the "I'm getting a divorce line" it's the oldest line in the book.
2007-12-30 08:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Captain Sarcasm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call it off now before you get hurt. Remember, if you come to the UK you will leave all your friends and family behind and the only person you will now is a man whom you have only just met. Think hard.
2007-12-30 08:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by pure_dragonfire 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good God...another old british man looking for a servant....come to UK...and get yourself someone better and single....guys over here love the Thai woman...the younger men ones dont need a nursemaid....they will treat you with respect....use the pensioner to get here...lol
2007-12-30 08:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Wee Hen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run sweetie. Oh well, I know you won't listen, but you'll learn if you do marry him, and you'll wish you had listened.
Actually, chances are, he'll just keep having as much sex as possible and you'll be the other woman forever.
If you have to ask this question, you know in your heart this isn't right. Get away while you still can.
2007-12-30 08:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
As long as he can keep you as a trophy mistress, he is unlikely to divorce his wife. It's classic. I wouldn't blindly believe him, and forget about any wedding plans anytime soon! Good luck!
2007-12-30 08:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋