Me and my ex met each other over a year ago under an unusual situation. It started out as a hookup, but we kept in touch (long distance, by the way). More developed, and we became a couple. She came down here a few times, and then I went there. After a few months, alot went on in her life, alot of difficult situations, and we broke it off. She kept in touch with me still, but I wouldn't get back. We've been off for a year, but she kept getting in touch with me and apologizing, and said that leaving me was the stupidest thing she has done. The last time, I decided to start talking back with her. I dated during the time apart, and no one compared. Now, we are talking regularly, and I told her I want to give it another chance. She wants to get back together, but wants to wait to make it official until we see each other. She has also gotten bad about calling lately, blaming work. She goes out quite a bit. Should I be worried, and am I stupid to put out my feelings again?
2007-12-30 07:25:01 · 5 answers · asked by Niner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What will her going out quite a bit and her bad calling habits ultimately result in? Would she be willing to sacrifice her going out allot for you?? On the other hand if you've tried dating and no one else compares, she maybe worth getting back together with. Sometimes getting to know someone happens through trial and error, make it official and see what happens! Caution take your time, this time and show her strength and not such an emotional need for you feelings!
2007-12-30 07:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by It's all Good! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,break it off and just stay friends,it didn't work the first time,and it won't work the second time around. And you don't want your heart broken a second time from the same girl who broke it the first time. She left you for what ever reason two years back and now she says that she realizes that she made the biggest mistake she has ever done in her life,but is reluctant to make it official until you see each other,sounds like she setting you up for a big surprise package.
2007-12-30 08:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by TEC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would 1st get 2 know this person since she has been at a different environment, hey people change... but I would get 2 know this person 1st, besides this world is full of beautiful girlsss, yours is out there waiting 4 u 2 go get her.....out with da old, in with the new......do what u feeel....if u feel uncomfortable, dont answer her fon call.....be straight up! utell her u feel awkward when she callls, when she gets mad thats when ull know what she feels....
2007-12-30 07:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by budman11901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NOT get back together wth her. She will probably just break your heart again. So NO DO NOT get back together with her!!! (Well, I wouldnt get back together with a guy after I divorced him)
2007-12-30 07:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe in second cances, or even third chances...
who knows, you loved her then, you might still love her now...
2007-12-30 07:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋