This is an unusual situation. My ex is 60 and I'm 41. We have 3 children together. He currently lives with us in the basement. I have to move on because we are outgrowing our house. I was thinking of letting him move in with me again due to the fact that 1) he has to have a knee replacement operation and recovery is very difficult and long! 2) my kids have grown used to him being around, esp. my youngest and they would miss him 3) we can't really afford to live separately. I am working full time he's on disability and I can't pay someone to take care of the kids after school.
With all this being said the fact of the matter is that my ex and I can't stand each other. We will NEVER get back together. I have been seeing someone for 4 years now and I can't seem to move on due to my situation. My ex hates this person immensely and doesn't want him around my kids. He's very controlling. I feel guilty though, if I don't help him out after all we've been through. Please help!! Thank you!
2007-12-30 07:18:55 · 5 answers · asked by dancergalny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's 60 years old and still can't take care of himself. Don't let him back in. Tell him to find a needy person, they'll be a match made in Heaven.
2007-12-30 07:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what is up with the new boyfriend 4 yrs and still not living together he needs to step up and help or something by now
2007-12-30 07:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd look for a place you can afford and see if your ex will watch the kids for you. They can enjoy being with him and you won't have to have him living so close.
2007-12-30 07:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by comeundone4162 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck you have to do whats best for you/doesn't you bf have money if he does not get rid of him first sounds like he done nothing to help
2007-12-30 07:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself are economics more important than your LIFE....
and SANITY?
2007-12-30 07:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋