another silly question but i'm totally in the mood. i know i can't blackmail God but i'm a huge romantic, i love love & passion and yet it doesn't happen. i think i'm quite a good person so why doesn't love come my way. i mean, romantic love. if anyone can relate, please share your thoughts. (i'm not interested in hearing about self love; i have plenty of that, i can't make love to myself, thanx)
2007-12-30 06:46:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
i do look, i don't sit at home..
2007-12-30 06:52:12 · update #1
i'm 26 already :)
2007-12-30 06:53:02 · update #2
Looking for a supernatural solution is not rational. You make your own choices in life. Free Will is real and it's up to you how to use it. Relying on a non-existant entity will not get you anywhere. You raise the probabilities of meeting the one you like by increasing the opportunities...ie, get out there and 'expose' yourself (so to speak). socialize and go places and do things that you like....you're bound to meet people who have similar likes and dislikes.
2007-12-31 18:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Its not me Its u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've thought the same thing for a long time, but instead of thinking that God won't send you Mr. Right, try asking why Mr. Right hasn't came along just yet....perhaps you have to kiss a few toads before you get your prince. Going through some wrong people can make you appreciate your soul mate much more in the end. If he was just given to you easily, then you may end up thinking "well, that was easy....now what?" You have to work hard for the things in life that matter the most. I'm sure you've gone through some really bad friends in order to find some friends that you would give your life for. The same thing applies to love. So just keep your head up and keep on searchin for that one true love! Good luck :-)
2007-12-30 06:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by LeeAnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep looking - he's out there somewhere.
I think God makes it more difficult for some to find love so that when they do, they appreciate it more 'cause of all the bull**** they had to go through to find it. Think of it as a good thing. Quite a lot of people won't appreciate it as much as you will when it happens.
2007-12-30 06:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by d_and_n5000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sop looking you will find him. I know it sounds funny but i promise you it will happen...can I ask how old you are? I found my husband at 25 and married him at 29. A lot of my friends, if not most have found true love at 25-35...it will happen.
I was once like you, just like all my friends. I had a few get angry and say tht they would never get married and that is when Mr. Right showed up.
2007-12-30 06:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by flyrah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol, remember, you get what you ask for, suppose you get who you think of as"Mr Right" and he turns out to be a player, or he is nice until you marry him, and he turns out to be Mr Hyde. I've gone though marriage, and dating, and I have come to realize something about myself. If I'm lonely, I should get a pet, because most humans only cause me grief in the long run. I don't need the drama;)
2007-12-30 06:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL Relationships suck. When one takes into consideration all relationships, the relationship success rate hovers near the 2% area. Remember: were it not for relationships, there would be no domestic violence.
I suspect that the reason that God doesn't send you "Mr. Right" is because you've been good and God doesn't see any need to punish you.
2007-12-30 06:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mencken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the wrong guys now means you are getting closer to the right guy. If it's any consolation it took Thomas Edison "X" number of light bulbs to find the right one that worked. I used "x" as a expression of quantity and no the actual number you will have to have to get Mr. Right.
2007-12-30 09:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by Uncle Remus 54 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come. Promise! Just be patient and keep looking. And waiting. I was about your age wondering the same thing when my husband came along and rocked my world. Don't settle, set your standards high and early. And in time you'll find your partner.
2007-12-30 06:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know that it was god that sent people to us. But maybe you should get out there and look for your Mr right. I know who mine is I just am not sure how to find him or what is in his life so Ill just be patient and wait for him.
2007-12-30 06:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Kj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will...but you need to try to find "Mr. Right" as well. God can't do all the work all the time...he would be too busy. He is just going to help you along...but you need to go looking as well. Don't worry...you will find "Mr. Right" one day.
2007-12-30 06:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by Tucker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋