End Of December 2007 - Time 2.17 PM
2007-12-30 06:17:41 · 20 answers · asked by Frederique C 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
@.#1 ! "Always" Preferred "Lullabies"
"A Little" R O C kin/L Ange'":
Cotton & 'peony' petals: "Sepals" Of:
"Who Has my M' L i l " Sea:
::L o l o !::
F Axe Dodo !
"E tr e Bl o t ti"/Eb l o u i e" Par Le S e in/ l' e n c e in t e d' m a m an:'"La d o R {H.} Co e u R"/Q".
2007-12-30 06:43:41 · update #1
Enter: Barbarella: "S A l L !"
Ch an :"T": "Chan e u r s d e So r net t es" (?)
Mal i C OR )( E.
"Give M. Some of" Your Sweet Love:
Song: "D a lying ! I Need IT everyday..."
Give me sum X 4
2007-12-30 07:50:03 · update #2
F u s ch [sea} a Bow: "Rainbow" C o u lores:
Beyond The
Western 'b-eh-i-n-d t-j-e-bur g " G y:
2007-12-30 08:10:48 · update #3
Alors: Au Soleil: :hats "Sun IS" Too 'bright' for [shenshitive} `` little ** ``
"shshshhshh" Tea-Time: "Yahoo !"
"Not even" Bouillies au tapioca at 8/9mm" Ever Heard Of "MilkMais" Deesses (?)(?) *
2007-12-30 09:07:22 · update #4
OUI: "have The Chocolates" Trays...
[Ready-alridi} For Ya:
"The French" have: 'petits-pots'- very practical - En Tournees - "Legumes a la jardiniere" + "Compote de fraises au fromage blanc"...
Goat 's M. Is very warm also for petit Choux + Recettes Allemandes = "Virility" ****
2007-12-30 10:15:57 · update #5
So DC ^.28PM: "Rules Are" Flexible>
Good-Aired Cradles...
Comfy "high" Prams...
"D o l c e" O o p e e s !
Some Women in Mixed-M. prefer Staying in Africa, for "rituals" Are 'forbidden in Those
Countries. Yet "IT" Would seem: "Some" Don't even 'know'. "The Enigma" (?)
"Purity": Baby Foods: "Healthy" ..."not suggesting you ever force your baby..." Of Course. 6.36PM
2007-12-30 10:36:34 · update #6
The Buttercups-Nurseries are Open:
"On Yahoo !" 9.smnotink !
Cuddle ya 'Little Ones Tenderly:
"No loud noise e-l-ec-t-r-o-n-i-c-s"
TRUST: "Instinct":
Maman's Milk Protects:
"No Need" of 'vaccine-n-t-r-e-Q.'
Ah ! Zicken'pox: "Catch IT": Soon:
"Proper Nurseries": "Bee-Hives" Will Free !
Hourrah ! "Gabriela"S of Ol' & Now !
Ludwig's Mobiles: (lead-off..."leading"2: Question:
lead-ing (led'ing) N: The Act. TRUE.
"Azura...
Ich L . >>>
2007-12-30 13:24:40 · update #7
Why would anybody WANT to, is a better question...
Babies' wants are babies' needs.
Letting a baby cry alone is AT BEST child neglect.
And it would be more widely acknowledged as such if not for so many quacks desperate to make a few bucks by flogging books with quick-fix garbage "parenting" techniques for garbage "parents."
It does nothing nice for babies, and nothing nice for decent mothers.
The idea that an infant, dependent by definition, needs to be taught independence or some such nonsense is, well, nonsense. It does not "teach a baby to self-soothe" or similar; it teaches them to give up.
It is a shameful practice, and it deserves harsh condemnation.
2007-12-30 06:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 7⤋
You poor factor... I understand your soreness, whether I broke plenty until eventually now than you - 6-7 months!! i in my opinion like Sheyne Rowley's 'Dream toddler handbook' e book - that's concepts for in the time of the day, besides as at evening, geared in the direction of 6-18 month olds. seek for her website on line - it has various information approximately her approach, see no count in case you think of it is going to healthy. you're able to be able to nicely be waiting to start applying a number of her concepts at present away. the belief is that there is a 'going to sleep' ordinary, a re-settling ordinary (many factors an analogous because of the fact the going to sleep one), and a waking ordinary. the factor that incredibly clicked as quickly as I heard her speaking on television became the way she defined why crying it out made no experience - attempting to tell your toddler that at 1am crying gets you nowhere, 3am comparable, 5am comparable, yet 7am? ok, now i'm going to respond to your cries and p.c.. you up, saying what a physically powerful toddler you're for 'drowsing by using' the evening! does not that merely instruct your toddler that in the event that they cry for long adequate you will finally are available?? could make the crying worse... interior each week of commencing together with her concepts (which is composed of applying a secure-T-Sleep), my daughter became drowsing 11-12 hours a evening devoid of intervention from me. She became 6-7 months previous. stable success!
2016-10-02 21:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by coughlan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babies should always be tended to the first year of life. older than that(barring illness) they may need to cry briefly to enable a proper bedtime. just keep increasing the crying time 5 minutes per nite. rituals work well. btw---I left one of those fisher price soft bunnies(with the rattle in the foot) in my son's crib from day 1 and he was my best sleeper----from 6 weeks on slept all night. as he got older he'd grab his bunny and snuggle in without a fuss.
2007-12-30 11:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by I hate carrots 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way babies can let us know that they need us is to cry. How can we ignore this call? So much misinformation about babies becoming spoiled has hurt the way we nurture our children. Also, do you know that to an infant, when you are not in his/her sight, you appear to no longer exist? This is very frightening to them. If a baby is crying, he/she needs something. If nothing else, if they are fed, dry, and warm, they may need you to hold them. If you give them the nurturing they need, they will grow up more self-assured, not less.
2007-12-30 09:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by NRPeace 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Google "cry it out Harvard" and see what the experts have to say about the damaging effects of CIO.
Touch and comfort is a need for babies. When we pick them up and attend to their needs, we are teaching them love, respect, and trust. When babies are left to CIO, they learn to give up, not to "self soothe."
Yes, it's more work to take care of baby rather than just setting down and walking away. But the work that we put in today will pay off later on in life. Children whose needs were met in the infant years are more secure and independent later on in life.
2007-12-30 07:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by manda 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Because they cry for a reason. Even if its just for comfort. If you are too lazy to do that for your baby you shouldn't have had one. Making them cry only makes them think that you don't love them, and are not there for them when they need you. Do you really want your baby to think she cannot depend on you...or that you dont love her?
There are more important things then sleep. And if you think you are teaching the baby something you are very mistaken.
2007-12-30 07:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
It depends on the situation- if there is a little crying/whining because he/she did not get what he/she wants then let them cry, they will learn they can't always get what they want and end up falling asleep soon enough.
If something is wrong then obviously that's different.
2007-12-30 06:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by LiL One 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
because a baby is used to being rocked and being cosy within the womb - why should we not continue that? - they cry to tell us something - we ignore our instincts and their needs, and deny them our love if we ignore their cries.
a very young baby cannot be spoilt, only loved!
2007-12-30 11:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by hedgewitch 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people feel that it spoils the baby to pick him up if he's crying.....I have two Kids who have turned out perfect(yeah all parents think their kids are perfect-but mine really are..hee-hee ) i never just left them to cry hysterically....now if they are just a lil fussy-that's different. but you can not love a baby too much and I really don't believe you can spoil them too much either......Good Luck...and the cliche is true-that time flies and before you know it they are grown.....
2007-12-30 06:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by trixibel 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
when they fall asleep put them in their crib/cot , so many parents let their children lay on them well after they have fallen to sleep WRONG when they are asleep put them to bed , its the only way they will learn no amount of songs /lullabies will get them to sleep ,take a step back babies aren't stupid they know more than we think they do !! good luck
2007-12-30 13:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥BEX♥ 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes my son fights his naps. But if he does that. We put him in his crib and let him fuss. He won't cry just fuss. If he does start to cry we go in there. And lay him back down and he will go to sleep. But I don't feel comfy with letting him cry himself to sleep. I feel if he is crying he needs mommy and comfort.
2007-12-30 06:25:26 · answer #11 · answered by Deborah P 5 · 8⤊ 1⤋