I got pregnant the first time I had sex with my ex-husband. I was only 17 at the time and we weren't planning on any kids at all. We went from friends, to dating, to parenthood then marriage all within about a year and a half's time. We ended up with 3 more kids, but we were failed from the start.
My first son was born Aug. 16, 1992... my second son on Aug. 06, 1994. Then came my daughters- first one November 07, 1995 followed by December 04, 1996.
My hubby was never there for us. He never learned how to be a husband, let alone a father... and I wasn't much of a wife.
Time is usually the best teacher.
I encourage everyone to wait awhile before rushing into parenthood. Enjoy marriage for a time- because circumstances willing, after you have children you'll never truly be alone again lol.
2007-12-30 06:17:19
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answered by Xyleisha 5
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i have no kids and im 23
me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 years since highschool and now living together for over a year. the topic of kids didnt come up until the last year. my younger brother and sister just had kids this year. i have wanted a baby but i was afraid to bring it up cause overall our relationship has been going great the way it is and i was afraid of his reaction. well things are working out. i go for my last depo shot feb and then im not going to go back for another. doctor said anywhere from 3 months to a year and a half and i could become pregnant after that. so maybe within this next year ill have my first.
2007-12-30 06:16:28
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answered by Lucky 5
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I have two. My guy has eight kids altogether, including our two.
My partner and I didn't plan for any kids. None of my pregnancies were planned by me. (I had a m/c when I was 16 before my partner and I met. Then, he and I had a m/c about a year and a half into our relationship, then we had our daughter, got pregnant again when she was 3 weeks old, and we didn't have that baby, and then almost 2 years ago, we had our son...and I got my tubes tied.
2007-12-30 06:14:03
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answered by MamiZ fa shizzle! 4
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My husband had two kids when I met him. Hes ten yrs older than me. His kids were 5 and 9. We married in 1988 and his kids came to live with us less than a yr later. I began raising them and then we had a child of our own in 1992. We were together for three yrs before we married, so we waited 7 yrs from the time we met, to have a child. He had a vasectomy reversal so we could have a child.*
2007-12-30 06:32:38
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answered by Check this out! 7
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I have two children.
My husband and I got married in Sept of 1992 and our first was born December 1993. The second one came along in November 1994.
2007-12-30 06:12:09
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answered by Anonymous
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We waited about 3 years.
2007-12-30 06:10:35
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answered by gigischildcare 6
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I have 6 children I my son was 8 months old before I got married
2007-12-30 06:13:16
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answered by oh_jo123 7
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Yes, i have a 5 year old and im 29.
He was planned. I'd been with my partner 7 years prior to the decision.
2007-12-30 06:10:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Had 4 kids first was born 11 months after we were married, they are all grown now.
2007-12-30 06:11:08
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answered by Granny 1 7
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Got six. First one was born barely a year after I got married. Youngest one is now 26. Time flies...
2007-12-30 06:09:54
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answered by Anonymous
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