My ex-boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few months ago. I was very crashed over it. but he has been always contacting me, saying he finds it hard, he misses and loves me. Of course I felt the same. He even came to see me twice as he missed me too much. But he said we cannot get together as the long-distance situation hasn't changed. Last time he contacted me, he told me he wants us to work things out but then he backed off again saying it's still not the right time for us. I was hurt again so I asked for no contact even though I really love him and want to be with him. Its hard really. But he eamiled me a week ago saying he can't help his feelings but he misses me, thinks of me and doesn't want me to think he doesn't want me anymore. He emailed again 2 days later. I replied but I got upset when he said he is going abroad with his friends to celebrate New Year. He said he will leave me alone now as he can't take blames from me. I am so hurt. I love him. I am 30 yrs old.
2007-12-30 06:05:41 · 9 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We got into emotional discussion and I asked him to give me some clarity to tell me whether I should forget and move on. His mobile has now been switched off all day long?! but he emailed me a few days ago he misses me. Why has he switched it off. I asked him to reply to me as I am struggling with this again. He is not responding.
2007-12-30 06:06:27 · update #1
sorry honey sounds like he has another woman
2007-12-30 06:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by DogzBolokz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to delete this guy from your phone and cut him out your of life for good so you can start to move on. These toxic exes have a way of keeping you dangling on a line - I still get the occassional text messages and phone calls (which I now ignore) from non-commital ex-boyfriends that didn't really want me but don't want me to move on either. It's all about massaging their egos. There is no point in wasting energy on second guessing them. If he had really wanted you and wanted to make a go of it, he would have made the effort the first time around. Tell him that you think it is a good idea that he leaves you alone and mean it, then get call barring if it helps. Have a bonfire of his old photos etc with a large glass of wine with your mates. Make sure you go out New Year's Eve - get dressed up, have a new hair do, buy some new shoes and go and get chatted up. It will do you a world of good to ring in 2008 on a high note.
2007-12-30 07:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by ladywotlunches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my friend calls me on his cell phone, I can hear all the background noise. Maybe he isn't where you think he is. His story about spending New Years abroad sounds like Scott Peterson's story to Amber Frye. Proceed with caution, or even read Amber's book. Something isn't quite right. What is holding him back? Stop being hurt and take action, even a private eye in his location. Really, all you need is an address and who answer's the door. You are too young and caring to be put on the shelf. You have to know the truth so you can get on with the good things life has to offer. Good luck.
2007-12-30 06:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Davey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are soooo being played! My guess is that he is doing just enough to keep you on a string so that you'll be a sure booty call. Tell him that you are NOT going to sleep with him any more, and back it up, and he won't be able to run fast enough! But you should be the one running!
You are way too good for this man! Move on! You'll be happy you did.
2007-12-30 06:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Terri J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might wana enjoy new years and think things through before making a choice for the new year, as u both in the same boat, u should do the same...then come new year ask him how he feels and give him an ultimatum,,,
2007-12-30 06:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been with my boyfriend 3 years now and we are going through the same situation. he has turned his phone off and i have been trying to get in contact :( (we arent as far apart) i didnt know what to do, so i am just waiting for him to get back to me. it is a horrible situation to be in and i understand exactly what you are going through. i just hope they both see sense :)
2007-12-30 06:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by x Gemz x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too attached to him, get help!!! U need to move on with your life and stop posting this question over and over again!!!
2007-12-30 06:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sabrina K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by rieck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just messing you about, just get over him, I know it's hard but once you get over him you won't be getting so upset about why he's doing what he's doing.
2007-12-30 06:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋