2007-12-30 05:31:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
these answers are good, keep them coming
2007-12-30 05:50:30 · update #1
Only you know your needs. Marriage is a good institution... for those needing an institution. lol
2007-12-30 05:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by the_chief 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from this Long Term Single Parent (who is the SURVIVOR of a Short Disaster of a Marriage to an Abusive, Violent Sociopath) ... and who raised ALONE (only on MY INCOME) TWO Disabled Children (and I was alone since they were toddlers) ...
THINK ... raising children is DIFFICULT under the best of circumstances .. and being a SINGLE PARENT ... wow ... I can say that it was definitely a CHALLENGE ... and I ended up sacrificing all for their care.
(My ADVICE ... get a Tubal Ligation (Tubes tied) and DO NOT HAVE ANY MORE CHILDREN!)
As far as getting Married -- get a Pre-Nup -- that way, what you HAVE EARNED on your own is PROTECTED ... and ... this way, IF the marriage is to fall apart -- it can at least allow you the freedom to KNOW (and peace of mind) that the EX will NOT be fleecing you for everything you HAVE (which is what he will do ... and it HAPPENED to ME).
I ... in retrospect .. should have REMAINED SINGLE ... and ... this is most important (since the children were conceived and born within that short marriage) ... NOT had children at all. Although I DO Love my children ... (and it is unconditional -- even though they betrayed me completely as young adults/teenagers) ...
I would have NOT had to experience the past 2 decades plus of TORMENT ... being Abused, being Burglarized, having NO Peace of mind, and yes, having SOME ability to care for the ONE person abused in the entire time ... and ...
That ONE person -- ME.
2007-12-30 13:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay single ....you dont need to be married to have kids....unless you want to be married ....but then again you could get married have kids, get a divorce,and then you would still be single with kids....I DONT KNOW... IM CONFUSED NOW
EDIT; just read some of the other answers, damn take it easy people
2007-12-30 13:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know all the circumstances in order to help you decide but my first inclination would be to suggest that you wait until you get married before having more children.
2007-12-30 13:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married if you want to have more kids.
2007-12-30 13:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i think you should have lots more kids!
you can never have too many kids when you're on welfare
and why are you even thinking about getting married?
which one of you baby daddy's would you choose
2007-12-30 13:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by littleheadcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about getting married, you already have enough kids, u don't need a grown one too
2007-12-30 13:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Nora G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to have kids without a husband? i'm separated from my husband (3 yrs) and raising 3 kids by myself. to say the least, it is Not Easy.
2007-12-30 13:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just quit having kids and stay single. taking care of them should be your main priority.
2007-12-30 13:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has been proven in studies that children turn out better when raised in a home with both a mother & father.
2007-12-30 13:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Curious Mind wants to know 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋