I am much younger than he, though not young, and he is way over sixty. We have two children, both adults and married.
He was constantly after women, all his life. I pretended not to notice, so that my children would have had a decent family life.
Now he keeps a young woman in her early twenties, Valérie Marneffe.
He rented her a large house and even servants. She has rich clothing, and all her heart desires. She gives open dinners almost daily, and invites up to fifteen people to them.
He promotes the husband of this woman, too, because he works in his department.
My husband ruined himself for that woman. The sums he spends on her are enormous. He is in debt, and twice our son had to bail him out, so he is in debt now, too. I take work home, and it's not enough. We sold everything, and all the money went to her. We asked him, all our family to stop his infatuation, and he would not!
What should I do?
2007-12-30 02:17:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
Well, since it is over and has been for some time now....why are you NOW wondering WHAT to do.......????
Well, put your home on the for sale market....Empty it out into her Garage, with what is left, and MOVE IN with her. Since she is getting all your family's money anyway, it is the only thing that makes any sense...... JUST go for it.....That will certainly wake up your Husband. Then you will need to set yourself up in some type of higher paying job and have a private banking account to actually get yourself out of his life and move on......before you are homeless.
2007-12-30 02:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you still love him and want him to be back and if u'r children love n ready to take care of u then why don't u jus ignore him. may be after that he will come u know the value of u'r,
as all those ladies stay till u have money, so stop paying his debts. when the money is over with him she will ditch him and go away.
if u don't love him then file for a DIVORCE
hope the best for u
Good Luck
2007-12-30 10:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by pari_paree 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are either devoted to this man or an absolute nut job. If you are devoted put your foot or feet down and send him to a facility that deals with addition. Then based upon the outcome make an informed decision.
If you are a nut job...continue the insanity. Insanity is defined as doing the same thing again and again and expecting a different outcome.
I think he is dog...so what that make you?
2007-12-30 10:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by PFS 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
D-I-V-O-R-C-E. You may not gain anything financially and live the good life as his mistress. But, you can still file for alimony and may have a good chance of getting it. It may not be much, but at least you will get something out of it. Even if it's $1.00 a month (just and example) it's well worth it. If he fails to pay that $1.00 a month you can haul his behind off to court and he may have to do jail time for not paying you a buck!
2007-12-30 10:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Leave him. If he is giving everything to this other person, then you need to find someone that wants to give everything to you. You deserve much better than the humiliation of bailing him out. Don't do it again and don't let your children do it, you are just helping him to keep up with this woman. Leave now while you still have some dignity.
2007-12-30 10:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
divorce him, He May be broke but that doesn't mean that he doesn't have funds elsewhere like 401's pension, retirement. I am sorry that this happened to you,it's such a breech of trust and without trust there is nothing. Good luck to you.
2007-12-30 21:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by jana 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop reading Cousin Bette.
2007-12-30 10:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
When your husband cheats that bad enough but when his obsession continues despite that you are aware and your families livelihood are in jeopardy...you should reevaluate the relationship between the two of you.
Honestly...I wouldd leave him because eventually he woul be the cause of your destruction.
2007-12-30 11:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jambalaya 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Kick his *** out just be careful you don't inherit his debts If you stick around till he kicks the bucket you will deffinately end up with his debts, unpaid credit card debts and everything else unless he has enough insurance to cover them. He is never going to change he will still be pinching butts from his coffin.
2007-12-30 10:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
"Comedy", indeed. You're not laughing now, are you Addy? Your husband's a ridiculous old fool, but he'll get his. The only good thing I can say about Lisbeth is that one of my favorite actresses was named for her.
2007-12-30 11:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by gormenghast10014 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋