do you have things that you are not willing to talk about?
2007-12-30 01:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by whatever w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is friend of mini mouse speaking---
i'm not willing to say too much unless i feel comfortable. my lifes mixed up but thats how it is.. i shouldn't be ashamed of it.
2007-12-30 01:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by mini mouse.........x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you first meet someone you automatically strike up a conversation. a close friendship isn't built overnight. you share things that you feel comfortable sharing and that the other would be comfortable hearing. every relationship has it's boundaries. there are people that you will be friends with for years and years that won't know very key things about you.
one thing though, don't put too large of a burden on any newly formed relationship. that is a huge mistake many people make. whether it is a male/female relationship or best friends relationships. we tend to put too much of ourselves out there too soon. we haven't fully discovered if the other person is trustworthy.
remaining reserved with your secrets is a good thing. you won't ever regret NOT sharing a secret.
2007-12-30 09:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by rt63376 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how i judge the person in the first place. if she/he's willing to talk about personal lives then i'd be willing to do so too! when to people i've newly met, i won't touch on details like relationships or people i love (family, close friends etc etc) because it makes me feel uncomfortable. as for everything else, i guess i'm alright
2007-12-30 12:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Amal Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, we all do.....If you feel connected with a stranger you can talk up a storm, and solve the worlds problems. It is all talk, and as a great escape for awhile. That is why it is so much fun. If the connection continues after that....a good friendhip is possible, otherwise, it is idle chat.
2007-12-30 09:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much. Til I get comfortable with the person, which usually takes a longer time, nothing much about myself is revealed. I prefer friends to know more about me through time then for me to spell out my whole life to them.
2007-12-30 09:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure in life you cant go around telling everyone you meet all about you, it maybe a few that will get close to you and those will be the ones you bare it all to
2007-12-30 09:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by ¸.•*´`*♥ GODEZZ ♥*´`*•.¸ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i mostly listen and get to know them
first before telling them about myself
becoz i have to observe carefully about
a person until i can trust them knowing
about me and stuff. so i dont really talk much
about myself, nope
2007-12-30 09:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends on how much he/she tell me about him/her
2007-12-30 09:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by your friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋