she works at world market! i'm a lesbian but the thing is i don't look like the stereotypical lesbian, so i doubt she knows i am. i don't even know her name and have only seen her twice. how do i approach a girl i don't even know and ask her out on a date? it's soo difficult. i've never had to deal with it before. tips, please!! :)
2007-12-29 22:21:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
okay, other than obvious answers please. all the girls i've gone out with in the past have asked me out or it just sort of happened. i know i should start up a conversation, but come on. what do i say?
2007-12-29 22:34:48 · update #1
is SHE a lesbian? first things first, you need to find that out before you do anything or you might make a right tit out of yourself.
good luck!
2007-12-29 22:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by refusedtapout 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the World Market and always make a point to say hi to her and strike up some conversation. This sounds like the obvious answer. It is easier said than done. Talk about something not specifically related to her work. You may find her to be boring. Or you may want to get to know her better or vice versa. She may already be taken also :( The only way you will know these things is to ask. If you have something in common, there is nothing wrong with asking her out to eat or for a drink after work.
2007-12-30 08:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by gc27858 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great answers;
Communication is the key and as to what to say maybe a hi , how are you today? and take it from there. I guess try to determine if she's lesbian or not.
If you want to talk, please feel free to contact me. Take care :)
2007-12-30 09:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by danielledspence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have much to lose. its not like u see her everyday.
i agree with someone elses answer, just give her your number.
or u can get a friend who isnt shy. to go up to her and ask her if shes seeing anyone LOL. or get ur friend to say they hav a friend who is interested in u and wants to know if ur single...and gay xD
2007-12-30 19:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her and start up a conversation.
2007-12-30 06:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jay S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Complements, go along way with an introduction by yourself, and jsut start chatting!!
2007-12-30 07:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hand her your number the next time you see her and then see what happens.
2007-12-30 10:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is general knowledge in the world of dating... i suggest you get to know her first...
2007-12-30 06:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to put her out of your mind. You don't want to mess up her life. You will get over it in time. Maybe, you could work on your life to be straight. God bless.
2007-12-30 06:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 6⤋