2007-12-29 22:17:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
The assertion is false. What you mean to say is "Loneliness is MY pain others should tend to." Disgraceful.
2007-12-30 02:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Baron VonHiggins 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, loneliness is harsh.
I was forced into perpetual loneliness with the moral decayence of my parents and sister.
But, I have discovered via trial and error that, yes, I would not die, I can still survive, though, I am one aganst the outside world. And now, Jesus is with me by my side all the way, I am no longer 1 fighting against the whole wide world. If you are trying to combat loneliness without the love of your Creator, I guess you are just not gonna succeed.
If you know the way already, why are you still purposely painfully in search of alternative ways that avoid the one straight way that you already know will lead you out of the blackhole? Trying to reach the attainment of spiritual shortcuts?
Counter loneliness: Break others' loneliness, join groups and outings of friends, (for me I did it by joining a cell group in my church)
"All the best!"
2007-12-29 22:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed Person :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As strange as it will sound, I find isolation from people, helps me avoid loneliness. When I see a beautiful woman, or a group of people having fun, they act as a reminder of what I am missing out on. I strive to be comfortable with who I am, & be more complete as an individual, instead of fleeing from myself into the arms of distraction or dependancy. Hopefully this will make me into a better friend to those people who are a part of my life.
2007-12-29 23:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by insignificant_other 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness cannot be joyful without taking recourse to Spirit. Spirit makes being alone fulfilling.
So no, I cannot answer without using the word spirit.
2007-12-29 23:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without using that word it's hard to answer, because that is the answer. Unless you are lucky enough to live in a place where people are reasonable and you can join groups and make friends.
2007-12-30 06:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Acai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loneliness is a pain i found that if you spend one day every week volunteering somewhere you meet great people plus it makes you feel great.
find a good support groups and also having someone to talk to really helps even a pen pal if you want you can talk with me at hughjamesberry@hotmail.com. but also if you go to a church group they can really help get through loneliness but also knowing Jesus can help mate. it might sound strange but having faith really helps
2007-12-29 22:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by FUnkjunKie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lonely person. I rarely feel alone. When i feel alone sometimes i write my feelings in songs or rhymes or put my feelings to words in some way. Plants and animals, i watch them. I enyoy the silence remembering the noise. I take a walk. If it's too strong maybe i cry. I sing, i write, i play. I read. I imagine a world on which i'm not alone. I start inventing solutions for problems. I come to Y.A.. I read jokes.
2007-12-30 03:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by The Tigress 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You counter it be being in the company of people whom you care for and who care for you.
2007-12-30 01:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to enjoy your own company and you will not feel so lonely.
2007-12-29 22:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by mtheoryrules 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
buy a dog or cat. or both.
2007-12-29 22:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋