ok.
i just started going out w/ trhis guy friday
and i was with my friend and her bf
so we went to the movies
we kissed maybe 6 times and cuddled and held hands.
my friend kept tellign me to make out wiht him but i wuldnt. the truth is that was my first kiss.
but now he wants to go to a movie next friday alone, and i wanna go, but i dnt wanna make out.
cause like, idk. i know how u do, but ive never done it before, and like what if im really bad or something?
hes made out alot b4. and he is 2 years older than me.
dnt say sumthin tupid to me like break up w/ him
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and i really do wanna make out with him. but i just dont weannas crew up. like idk. i know how ur suppoed t make out, but ive never done it, so i kinda dont.
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2007-12-29 22:14:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
if you are asking us then you are not ready for that
2007-12-29 22:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your first kiss! Neat!
Sweeetheart, you don't hve to do anything you don't want to. Tell your friend nicely that's just too much, too soon for you and ask her, nicely, to please let you alone on this topic. As for the boy, you will be just fine if you let him know you like his company, and that kissing and cuddling with him are fun. If he wants more, be nice but sweetly remove his hand, give a kiss on the back of his hand and smile - then say that you like him too much to get him all frustrated. If he's a caring guy, he'll appeciate your feelings and you guys can enjoy each other's company.
If he's mean and pushy, then you'll be happier finding out soon.
You are very young and there's a time for everything. It is good for you to think these things over and learn first how to be yourself. You do not have to make out or more in order to have a good time or to have boys want to go out, and you will discover that there are LOTS of boys. For a long time to come, you probably will be changing boyfriends like shoes, anyhow.
Think ahead a little. Before you get in a spot where you might end up doing lots more than making out, be ready. Teen pregnancy and the risk of disease are real. Learn about yourself and how to avoid these kinds of risks. As i said to someone else once, "I like sex, but not enough to die for it."
For now, just be a happy girl with what YOU know is best for you!
Good luck!
2007-12-30 06:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Der Lange 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously it's best to go out with other friends. I wouldn't reccomend it. Been there done that. Don't go to far-It can go over-board before you know it.
I'm 36-single and taking my time still to enjoy life. Don't rush it.
Boys can be very tempting and Sexy and as well as Men but Be smart. I had a teen-age romance and he died in my arms-from a car accident at 19 and I had another one I really fell for big time-I never got over my first- and then focused on my Education and now have my own place-support myself and go out and have my own Friends and Do what I want -When I want. Be Careful Sweetie.
2007-12-30 06:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, it's so funny because i can totally remember thinking the exact same things. Just, all i can say, is if you want to, then do it. but don't do anything you don't want to do, because, well truthfully it can lead to other things. and i know i probably sound like a parent saying that, but it is true. Just have fun, get some practice, because there will be many boys after this one, more cute and better everything! i promise :)
good luck!! :)
2007-12-30 06:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by toonlink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋