i was just going through a myspace bulletin and it said did you lose your virginity in 2007, and she said not in 2007, haha. what does this mean? she never told me about her first kiss or anything, so is it possible that she's not a virgin? i'm trying to figure this out, and so i'm not sure how to start the subject to find out. does this sound like she's not a virgin? (she's 15)
2007-12-29 19:16:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and because she's my best friend, and i'm feeling like she's not telling
me the whole story about stuff, and this is a big deal and if she's not telling me big stuff like this then somethings wrong.
that's why
2007-12-29 19:22:14 · update #1
and i get it's not any of my business or whatever, but i was just asking a question about this and was just wondering what i should do.
2007-12-29 19:24:12 · update #2
and because best friends are supposed to tell each other stuff right? so if she wouldn't tell me something like this then i don't know if somethings going on or what. some of the stuff i've found out about her i found out in myspace bulletins, but i don't know.
2007-12-29 19:27:57 · update #3
and thanks to everyone that's answering
2007-12-29 19:38:03 · update #4
If truly you are a friend, would it matter whether she is a virgin?
First of all, 'my space' is not a good source of establishing your close relationships. Meet and get to know, as well as choose, your friends. Care about them irregardless of their past. There really are so many more important things to, "figure out." Realize the difference in reality and lies. The devil himself is the author of lies and those who walk in them, don't be decieved and walk in them. Be concerned about real truth, real life and real issues. The word of God says to put him first and all other things will be added unto you.
Don't believe or concern yourself too deeply over deception and lies. By the way, the fact that such a topic is being discussed, speaks volumes of the quality of the person discussing it. Set your affection and discussion on things that are eternal, higher and above. Your life will become richer and take on a deeper more precious meaning.
Dr. Bob
2007-12-29 19:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by BoomBoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people put things on myspace to make you think they have done something when they haven't. Don't believe everything you read, people put on a front to make you think, so even if someone writes something, it is not always true.
What I am trying to say is just because you read it, don't believe it. You might mention something to your friend about looking in myspace and seeing it and see what she says. I wouldn't be pushy about it. If she wants to tell you more about why she wrote what she did and if it is true, she will... but that is her choice.
2007-12-30 03:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's private, and really none of your business. If she wanted everyone to know, she would have written "not in 2007, in 2006!" or something similar. Would it make a difference to you if your friend is or isn't? Because as far as I know, THAT is not what friends are for.
2007-12-30 03:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Zandia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you saw her post and that you were just curious if that meant that she lost it in previous years or whatever... i was 16 when i lost mine to my current bf (now i'm 20- almost 21) and the age that kids are starting to have sex now gets younger and younger, i wouldn't be surprised. i told myself i wouldn't have sex until i get married, but things change, you meet people that may change your opinion and i would never go back and change anything i have done with my bf... although i wanted to be his first, i wasn't and if i was that would change things to.... anyways, it's not really your business but if you are good friends then it shouldn't be a problem
2007-12-30 03:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tano A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it ever acure to you that she might have been JOKING? besides she did say haha. Besides its her mistake. She will regret it. (if she did) And also why are you so worried? Plenty of my friends arent virgins. I aint worried!
From Monique's friend.
2007-12-30 03:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a virgin? Ask yourself first.
2007-12-30 03:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It nyob and if you really want to know you should ask her, after all she's your best friend!
2007-12-30 03:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by C.C.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect, why is that any of your business?
2007-12-30 03:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how it's any of your business.
2007-12-30 03:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't know I'd have to ask her personally.
2007-12-30 03:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋