So I'm 15 years old and have been dating this guy for 4 1/2 months. We want to hang out with each other on New Years Eve but I told my Aunt and Uncle I would babysit. They said it was ok if he came over and my mom said it was ok with her if it was ok with them, but my dad doesnt want him too. I really want to spend my New Years Eve with him but idk if I will be able to. Would you let your daughter have him over or not?
2007-12-29 18:31:54 · 5 answers · asked by daythatidie99 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And we're WAY over the "OMG lets go have sex" stage
2007-12-29 18:37:09 · update #1
I'm with your dad.
2007-12-29 18:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard question. I'm not a parent. Though if you were my daughter, I would let you have him over only with my rules.
For instance, he would have to leave once New Years Eve is over. Past midnight, no later than 1:00 AM. Fair enough? You would have him over as long as you want, though when the time hits midnight... it's time to say good night. Plus, I would like some phone calls on how you were doing. Roughly every two hours.
That's really the only restrictions I would give you as a parent. You are babysitting, what's the worst that can happen? If you're mature enough, I say fine. For now, talk with your parents about it. Convincing is the only thing to do.
If your parents give you other restrictions, obey them. This is the only way you can gain and keep trust. I wish you well.
Violet
2007-12-30 02:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Violet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will you be babysitting alone? If alone, then no, I wouldn't allow it. If your parents will be there then sure. I guess it depends on your level of trust, but at your age, I hate to say it but I wouldn't trust your hormonal urges. Things just happen.
Whoa, if you're over that stage already, then that's kinda sad. You're way to young to be even comprehending that! You're not even a woman yet...lol
2007-12-30 02:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you watch the kids at your house so he can come over and your parents will be there? They can come over and spend the night.
2007-12-30 03:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a young mom being 18 with a three year old but i always know that i spend holidays with my daughter, Abby, always
2007-12-30 02:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Julia T 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋