Never mind the moral points on this question, but a friend is dating a married woman. She is a lesbian and the married woman is bi-I guess. Well this X-mas the married woman was talking to my friend on the phone and started to tell her about the gifts she got her husband and how she surprized him. How much he loved his gifts. She was saying this to her lover of many years. Was this direspectful to have this conversation with her lover about her husband??
2007-12-29 18:19:28 · 14 answers · asked by gabriel l 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
my friend was very hurt and felt disrespected
2007-12-29 18:30:29 · update #1
I do think that is disrespectful of her. That probably broke ur friend's heart hearing her partner talk about loving someone else and pleasing him. I think ur friend's girlfriend needs to pick and choose cuz it can be very painful being in that situation and it's not really fair to ur friend or her girlfriend's husband.It is like having her pussy and eating it too.LOL
2007-12-29 18:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Keeky 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's disrespectful because it's a keypoint in the married women's life.They both know of the husband,it's like talking about about a boyfriend with a friend,assuming your friend and the married women are not emotionally involved.If so,it still isnt disrespectful because it's not like he is a secret (as I said before)
Good luck to your friend!
2007-12-29 18:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Floyyy :D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your friend is happy to be involved in a relationship where her 'lover' is cheating on her husband - but feels hurt & disrespected when the 'lover' gets involved in 'wifely' things with her 'husband'.????
Serves her right. I have no sympathy for her. She can't make all the rules for the game she is playing.
2007-12-29 18:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ju-LIAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if your friend felt disrespected. Maybe their relationship is such that they can talk about those things. You must bear in mind, your friend is having an affair with a married woman. This very realtionship is totally based on lies and deception. She has no room to be offended. No disrespect intended here, but that how I feel about it.
2007-12-29 18:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Robert O 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-11 16:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's disrespectful for the married woman and your friend to be having an affair. When a situation is wrong, you can't expect good things to flow from it all the time.
2007-12-29 19:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Disrespectful of whom? Your friend obviously knows that the woman is married, so I would assume she is comfortable with that. The husband may or may not know about the girlfriend. If he knows, and is comfortable with it, then I don't see any disrespect. If he doesn't know, then the wife is showing disrespect, simply by cheating on him.
2007-12-29 18:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by the universe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a married woman to talk about her husband. She knows that the woman is married. I don't think that it was disrespectful.
2007-12-29 19:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no shes married and has a fling on the side with another woman your friend knows she is married and only bi.
2007-12-29 18:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by tracey a 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend knew this person was married, and still got involved with her? She needs to respect herself and find someone that will commit only to her... Or throw her feelings aside and enjoy being used.
2007-12-30 00:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋