Some days I feel as though I have a handle on my infertility but I don't.
Of course, I am very happy with myhusband - we have such a wonderful and full life..
How do you cope with your infertility?
2007-12-29 17:53:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
After 3.5 years of marriage and no pregnancy, I finally had my first IVF. Got lots of eggs and lots of good quality embryos. Paid lots of money, all out of pocket, no insurance and it turned out to be a BFN. It just sucks. I feel so sad, not only that I had to go through all the hell thats involved in IVF and also all 1000s of dollars that went down the drain and still no pregnancy. The only hope that I have is just to keep going with the fertility treatment. I will keep doing the frozen embryo transfers, will do more IVF and more laproscopic surgeries to figure out the whys. Of course all this will cost lots of money, but at least it gives me hope every month, while I am doing the cycles. I cant just sit around and not do anything. I dont know what your diagnosis or your story is, but remember, there is ALWAYS options out there.......IVF, donor eggs, donor sperm, donor embryos, adoption, surregacy.
2007-12-30 04:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by msknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't handle my infertility at all.
We have been TTC for 3 years and I just know in my heart I will never have a child and because of that I cry every day over the child I will never have.
My husband has even lost all hope of ever being a father.
2007-12-29 22:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by silverkoala2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not relate to your pain, but just wanted to say I feel for you. I get so angry when I see mothers pop out child after child yet couldn't give a damn about them, or mothers having abortion after abortion, when there are genuine, loving people such as yourself and your husband who desperately would love a baby.
Have you ever considered adoption or surrogacy? I know these are extreme options but have the potentional to give you the gift of a child of your own.
I hope 2008 is a happy one for you.
2007-12-29 23:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt know, however there are millions of children, even newborns who are waiting to be adopted, however if you want your own, check out invetro. and borrow a family members egg. My sister had ovarian surgery and asked to to help her when she gets ready to concieve. I am more than willing, maybe you could find someone in ur family like that too. Best of Luck
2007-12-29 18:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nausea is annoying!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to handle it, after trying for 5 years with pcos I think it'll never hapen but seeing miracles popping all around I just keep looking forward for next months hoping that then I'll get a BFP
2007-12-30 02:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 1/2 years of marriage, no baby yet.. it hurts a lot when i saw babies abandoned by their parents, fetus being aborted, children on streets, no home, no food, nobody to take care of them, instead working a lot not to sent theirselves in school but need to work bcoz their parents cannot provide them food to eat 3x a day...it hurts a lot, but......we still hoping that 1 day, GOD will give us a child..we always pray..& they sya..prayer really works....w/ this, there's nothing left, but to trsut GOD with all our hearts...goodluck!
2007-12-29 18:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋